I am a single man. I dated this single lady a couple of times. She tells me that she wants to be my friend, but nothing romantic. What do you think she means. Sould I waste my money and time on her ?
2007-01-16 16:10:31 · 23 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope
not if you want a romantic relationship
2007-01-16 16:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can waste your time but not your money. If you want to just hang out then that fine. But you shouldn't pay for anything for her anymore.
Its most likely she just wants to break up with you. Make her jealous and find a hotter woman. A couple of weeks later when your talking on the phone just pretend you have a beep for another phone call and say oh hey its (woman's name) I'll call you back.
2007-01-17 00:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Frak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you enjoy her company. Don't be pushy. If she gets to know you better, her feelings may change. If you don't see her, you'll never know. I suggest two things.
1. Don't be too pushy. Be her friend, enjoy her company don't try to jump her bones or hint that you want to jump her bones, she'll tire of you if you do this.
2. Don't see her too often. If you do, she'll know that you are not seeing anybody else and she will feel pressure. Once every other week should be fine. You need to determine this.
Good luck, but if I were you I wouldn't get your hopes up. Just enjoy the company.
2007-01-17 00:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer you seek is already in your question. The fact you are considering to "waste" time with her, or to "not waste time" says that you really shouldn't keep in touch with this person.
Friends are not a 'waste of time', so you language suggests you dont want any more friends.
Fair enough, just be honest with her.
2007-01-17 00:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by darklydrawl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best friend and wife comes from being friends first. That way the two of you will get to know each other and can relate better in future relationships.
2007-01-17 00:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Don't do it. She said she wants to be friends. Take her at her word. Don't make her use you for your money if she's not interested in a romantic relationship with you.
2007-01-17 00:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time on someone like her because one day she could just come up to you and say "sorry, i realized that i dont want to be with you" and you've practically were ready to have some kind of serious relatinship with her...but make sure that before you do that, you talk to her and ask her what exactly does she mean by just Friends....
2007-01-17 00:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by runaway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't pay for outings our anything, but friends spend time together. So if you are okay with friends...................I don't think you would be wasting any time. Who knows, she may change her mind and want more. But that is something that you shouldn't count on.
2007-01-17 00:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, you should not waste you money on her. Friends pay for their own crap. Yes, date or not it is courteous for the guy to pay, but if you feel she is just using you don't wast you time.
2007-01-17 00:15:31 · answer #9 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just treat her as you would any other friend - for now. And you should only spend what you feel is comfortable and what would be considered okay if nothing came out of it.
2007-01-17 00:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by kakolikapiha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really love her then you wouldnt mind spending your money and time with her eventhough she only wants you to be friends, but if like this you want something more than that and seems to me youre not brave enough to accept how women think and lifes facts then dont spend your time with her
2007-01-17 00:21:36 · answer #11 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋