Why does it seem more guys are attracted to women who are tall and heavy rather then short and petite. I've wanted to date 2 guys and they always wanted my bigger friend. They told me nothing against me but that they liked bigger woman. Gwad as if!
2007-01-16 16:06:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
diff strokes for diff folks
i like em petite
2007-01-16 16:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok. I am attracted to tall girls that a little heavy. Not built an ocean-liner but a woman who has a little bit of meat added on. There are a lot of different reasons. One is that it is mostly a cultural thing. I come from a very Scandinavian family. The women in my family are realitively tall and are not built petitely (sp?). They aren't fat but just not small. The spirit and the way they look at things is much different than the petite group.
Also there is something more sensually appealing to a woman who has all the curves not quite over-exaggerated but well enunciated in the right places. Don't get me wrong. I have seen some of the most impressive natural wonders of nature (mountains, seas, oceans, waterfalls...) by far women are the most beautiful things that inhabit the earth. EXTREMELY DANEROUS but beautiful. Women of all shapes have some intrinsic beauty but the taller and slightly heavier group is my prefered group. It is something about the way they look when the light catches them and you see the physical contour change that is smooth, soft and not as abrupt as with a woman who is built petitely.
Also when you hold them they are much more noticeable in the sense of body definition. When you snuggle with a heavier girl you feel the change in shape when you caress them. It is the shape of pure woman that I feel some petite women lack. Also I am semi-strong for a guy my age. I feel that if I hold a petite woman closely in an embrace that I am going to ruin something. I might pop a joint or mess up their hair or something and this beautifully delicate being will be altered and in some cases very frustrated. Petite women tend to keep their distance from me anyways but after dating one or two they seem to not want to lie under and open night sky my arms just cuddling and talking. That really isn't the attitude that I find most larger women having because they live differently.
Hope that helps...
If not...Sorry, I tried....
2007-01-17 00:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by thors13thhammer2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have to say its just personal preference. Some guys like small and petite sport cars, but others look for the big heavy duty trucks. Haha. I`m more of a sports car kinda guy.
2007-01-17 00:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Seth! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am tall and heavy, why is it men go for small skinny women and they are all over cosmo and they are on the runways and they have the five seven nine shop and they can get clothes anywhwere and they look good in a bathingsuit? Man it's that grass is greener thingy. Be happy with who you are and be who you are You are not just this physcal matter, listen to master yoda! lol. You are you! Your personality and traits can make you larger that you have ever thought possible.
2007-01-17 00:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I guess you could say being "a little bigger" is "in" now. but myself i would rather have a short girl but with some meat on her i also like petite too though.
2007-01-17 00:10:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not the height we are attracted to, it's the curviness of their bodies. Despite the anorexic looking models society tries to tell us are beautiful, a few extra pounds on a girl are feminine and sexy.
2007-01-17 00:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Michael S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding?
I have loads of compliments from men because of my petite frame, just take a glance at my 360 page.
2007-01-17 00:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Though your friends are rare.. Some just like em big.. Either that or they need an excuse to get you off their backs.. Wouldn't think so cause they most likely wouldn't risk having the big one likin them...
I wish more guys were like your friends.. More small girls for me.. haha
2007-01-17 00:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men are hard wired to enjoy women who appear to be reproductively suitable. You know...strong bones, healthy with child bearing hips. It is also Gods way of weeding out the undesirable short skinny people.
2007-01-17 00:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by 1heather247 M 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You must just be looking at the wrong guys. Screw them I know lots of guys who thik petite girls are killer! Wait a while you'll find one who appriciates you! ;)
2007-01-17 00:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHat??? I like short and petite, I love short and petite!
2007-01-17 00:09:54 · answer #11 · answered by Cyrill sneer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋