i want to talk to this boy who im sooo in love with but i am just too scared to talk to him over the fone, i get butterflies. And if your wondering why i ask questions like this, its because im in my young teens and i dont know how to act when dealing with boys. Help please.
2007-01-16 16:01:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just beyourself and ask him questions. just try to let him talk also. good luck
2007-01-16 16:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!,
I know exactly what you are talking about, and let me let u in on one little secret, guy are equally or sometimes even more nervous than you actually think in terms of love and relationship.
So he is as terrified as you on the same, so go ahead, call him up, what u can do is , write whatever you want to tell him or the questions you might want to ask him on a paper and just read it out for the first time, when you get comfortable, the words will flow, the paper will not be necessary.
Call him, fall in love all over again . :-)
2007-01-17 00:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you love him, you just might find him somewhat cute. It is just the whole idea of being in like with someone that has you all excited and that is okay. Remember, this boy would be no different than talking to a brother, friend or cousin,,,he is only human. You may smile alot, have no eye contact, but with all of that he might already know that you like him, if your girlfriend hasn't told him that already. So be brave and just do it - Ask!
2007-01-17 00:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by TVStar! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so i have thee same problem. but when he calls i answer it talk and let him start a convo that way i know that he wants to talk to me and then i can go with it and not be so nervous and then when things start flowing the butterflies go away and i can be myself. also if you dont already. talk to him a lot in person or go up to him to talk because that way you are used to talking to him and it isnt so weird to on the phone. good luck =]
2007-01-17 00:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by supahstarr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is not the way a young lady should be conducting herself. Young lady you should be more concerned with other things. Boys are not everything....I have plenty of experience.
2007-01-17 00:10:41 · answer #5 · answered by kingskid14512 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are but something you cant hold back without it bursting out. Tell him and what he does is his decision but atleast you cant let it pass cus it will always be with you when they leave. My first love ill never forget ten years later
2007-01-17 00:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by Carl F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called, not talking to them. Get finished with School. Then worry about relationships.
2007-01-17 00:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by bostnteabagparty01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Write him a note and stick it in his locker.
I've always been the direct type, and would encourage you to pick up your courage and say Hi.
2007-01-17 00:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get finished with School. Then worry ABOUT SOME THING.
2007-01-17 00:09:02 · answer #9 · answered by RIZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from boys. They have cooties. I know, you think it's all made up but it is really true. And if you get them, your breasts will never develop.
2007-01-17 00:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by 1heather247 M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋