It this guy I like very much and he knows it. Recently, he brushed me sayin we are off after a great date. I want to pursue him. I don't want to give up on him. I thinks about him constantly. How can I gain him back without looking desperate or looking like a stalker? I really want him. Please help me fight for him
2007-01-16 15:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by aries19768 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you wont need to fight for him if he likes you too hes just a call away.
2007-01-16 15:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No means no. Accept it and offer friendship first. Go all out and he will back away. Make the chase a bit hard after all, if you slow down he might actually get curious re the change in behaviour and seek you out. dont make him your whole world, go out with others and enjoy life it is too short to hold onto something that might not eventuate
2007-01-16 16:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn how to speak English properly. Men hate uneducated girls. Not to mention it's really un-attractive when you talk like, "I thinks about him." I'm not going to harp on the fact your whole question is a grammatical nightmare, but I think that you should pretend you don't care. People always want what they can't have, so if you pretend your not interested he will pay more attention.
2007-01-16 16:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be that he may not feel as you do after the date, and that
could be many reasons for that, but since he made it clear for]
now that it off, just take it for what it worth right now, and maybe
down the road you can see how it goes. but take it slow other
wise you will be the one hurt at the end.
2007-01-16 15:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up or email him to see how he's doing only then can you ask him on a second date. Goodluck!
2007-01-16 15:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do, dont start thinking down about yourself. You probably wouldn't, but just incase. Good luck! I'm sure you'll be great.
2007-01-16 15:59:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he told you how he feels...so I guess just deal with it and move on...there is nothing to gain here it appears...
2007-01-16 15:56:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
step up on him and tell straight to his face your true feelings for him
2007-01-16 16:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't YOU worth chasin'?
2007-01-16 15:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋