When I look back at the men I've been in love with they have all been very different and after each one I think I could never love another but I always end up falling in love again but with a completely different guy.
For example, I always thought I couldn't be with a guy who is slim but now I'm in love with a slim guy - I've realised that what I define as attractive changes depending on the type of guy my heart decides to fall in love with.
2007-01-16 15:47:50 · 9 answers · asked by Lulu78 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its a strong feeling that makes you fall in love with someone. People always ask..how do you know when your in love. Its a feeling you get when you are completely head over heels for one guy. I used to say I will never date brown haired brown eyed people just because i was always attracted to blondes..but my first real love ended up being a brown haired brown eyed boy. I wish I could give you an exact answer but I really cant. I think your heart makes the choice for you. meaning you have really no control. I just kinda try to go with the flow and let my heart make the decisions because i always say "everything happens for a reason" and I believe falling in love has its reasons.
2007-01-16 15:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no rhyme or reason as to what makes you fall in love with someone, but you end up doing it different everytime. I believe a lot of it has to do with how the guy treats you. Yet, sometimes, it when you first met them, hear them laugh and you just know that this person is the one for me. Good luck!
2007-01-16 23:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your last line - when I'm in love with a guy, I tend to find that guys who look like him are attractive.
To answer your question: there is no science as to what you find attractive. I've liked all different types too. It's just chemistry that we can't see but we can feel.
The variety is great - it lets you know that your heart can be open to almost anyone.
2007-01-16 23:52:15 · answer #3 · answered by Krysta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think that you won't ever like a certain type of person until you meet one and you get to know them better. But also remember that personality is usually what makes you fall for them. It's usually 20% face-wise ; 25% body ;; and 55% personality wise.
2007-01-16 23:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by asdfghjkl; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me its chemistry. I need the spark, the butterflies in the stomach, and then discovering that they are kind, funny, generous, honest, loving etc etc etc!!!
2007-01-17 00:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by Annie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Idiocy makes me fall in love with someone, or so it seems sometimes.
2007-01-16 23:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a kind of attraction..they seem 2 be unique 2 u...
2007-01-16 23:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by nishu k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its who they are --- personality and a chemistry that i can not begin to explain --- its there and you both know it
2007-01-16 23:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boobies and vaginas
2007-01-16 23:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋