We only went out once. Is it ok to just not return his calls or e-mails? Or would he rather hear the truth, that I'm not interested?
2007-01-16 15:45:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him the truth, but let him down in a nice way.
2007-01-16 15:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys have always told me that they'd rather have the girl say that she wasn't interested so they don't waste their time calling. You don't have to say, "I don't like you, leave me alone!" Say something along the lines of, "Hey I had a great time the other night, but I think it's better that we be friends." You're being honest and nice about it. Ignoring his calls will just make him upset and bug you more. It'll be hard the first few times, but it really isn't that bad. Guys are more understanding than we give them credit for. Good luck!
2007-01-16 23:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance to hear it from you. I believe everyone deserves that at least! Then you won't have the annoying phone calls or e-mails, as long as, he gets the clue.
2007-01-16 23:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth, they might be a little disappointed but it's better then making them wonder. They will get over it. After all, it was just one date. Did you eat pizza? on your first date I mean? i have a craving for pizza.
2007-01-16 23:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hear the truth. its rude and makes you come across as snotty if you dont just tell him the truth
2007-01-16 23:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by miss renee! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him the truth to avoid his false hopes from you
2007-01-16 23:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is always best. (& always trust your instincts) Tell him you are not interested.
2007-01-16 23:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite the bullet and turn him down. This wondering where you stand stuff sucks.
2007-01-16 23:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you dont think he is what you are looking for...if he wants specifics, well he asked for them so feel free to tell him...
2007-01-16 23:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it just not gana work out but that you had a great timeand he is a great guy.
2007-01-16 23:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋