I am starting to figure this out, most people have it backwards when it comes to love. They start out with physical, then they give their heart, but their mind might not agree with the other two. I finally realize after all my life that you need to fall for their mind, then give and recieve their heart...after that the physical part will be natural and wonderful....so would you agree with that statement?
2007-01-16 15:42:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Agreed.
I met my boyfriend on the net so to begin with it was only photos and text to get to konw him. It was like this for months before we actually met in person. We were up front and honest from the start (even before we realised we were falling for each other) and knew each other inside out before we even met. We each fell in love with our personalities and who we WERE, we already had given our hearts away to each other before we met and when it came to physical - it was so much better to actually KNOW the person as a best friend instead of wondering if you can remember their last name...
PS. i read you commented on someone elses Question that you have recnetly met someone (long distance) over the net - good luck to you, ya seem like a rad guy =P
2007-01-16 16:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very well put--it HAS to start with the mind.
It holds the essence of that other person--and therefore allows for the most intimate connection any two people can experience, from which everything else grows. Once a deep sense of trust has been established...'love'...and physical intimacy (if there is an attraction) would naturally follow.
At least in my opinion, 'seducing' the mind SHOULD come first, but most ppl are focused on seducing the body, in hopes that the rest will follow.
2007-01-17 02:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by WickedCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I agree cause love starts in the mind anyway.
2007-01-16 23:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright I agree,but if I'm going to love your mind...it's i before e except after c.
2007-01-16 23:55:57 · answer #4 · answered by jean 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would agree very much with this statement. It is very wise.
2007-01-16 23:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Je veux changer le monde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank god someone realized it. Finally!
2007-01-16 23:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Junoon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is true
2007-01-16 23:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋