ok me and my boyfriend broke up a couple days ago we dated for 4 months and we really loved each other we were so happy. but idk he said he didn't love me the same way anymore but he still loved me and he had reached his limits in the relationship and then i told him that he had stoped trying in the realation ship a while ago so i was going to stop trying right then and i walked away. so later we agreed to still be friends and i was kool with that but it wasn't working he wasn't trying and everytime i was around him are friends would always talk about how great we were with each other and we would both jsut sadly smile and then he would leave to go with one of his friends. and i still deeply love him and i can't get over him so i need so really good advice to get over the one man i really truly loved and can't bare to loose anymore then i have and is there anyway i can get him to change his mind about the break up?
2007-01-16 15:40:39 · 5 answers · asked by tiff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this feeling all to well. My boyfriend did the same thing to me. The pain is unbearable. How could he ever have done this to you? I told mine that I didn't like it, but I accepted it. That I would love him forever. I wanted to be friends, and he agreed - we had been good friends before, and the thought of loosing him made me sick. Then he turned into the most horrible person I have ever met in my life ( weeks later). He would insult me, constantly ( we had all of our classes together and a very small class). I continued to be nice, forcing this thought of friendship I wanted. Seven months I held onto this dream of friendship. But I finally decided that it just wasn't worth it. I just didn't love him anymore. I didn't deserve this. It was wrong. See, sooner or later ( acknowledge it or not) you will become bitter - or he will - and he will treat you differently. I know your pain is horrible right now. I know you want to swear off men forever, and you want to be alone the rest of your life. One day, you won't feel like that. I hope this helps you.
2007-01-16 15:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by Je veux changer le monde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange I am a mysoginist that would make Nieztche blanche. I realy hate women. Your question and your disgusting attempt at grammar reaffirmed my beliefes. To answer your question, you can try to get him back. However sometimes when the curtain is closed, it never opens again. All I had to do was read one paragraph written by you and leave the page to feel a fraction of the relief he feels right now. Find someone spineless who will not leave you due to insecurity. Thats me saying you are better off gay.
Thankyou.
2007-01-16 23:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really doubt you'll change his mind...Anyways, get over it..how old are you, like 15...you will go through many more guys, I'm sure, and in 5 years you won't even remember this losers name.
2007-01-16 23:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is a done deal and I would move on to the next level could bring better surprises.
2007-01-16 23:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so, u hate guys
r u a lesbian
2007-01-16 23:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋