i go places all the time and i'll be looking cute but i don't get any response from it maybe a look or two but nothin serious and i want more i walk with my head up and straight confident i've got a curvy solid figure so whats the problem does my being confident intimidate guys or is it something else?
2007-01-16 15:37:47 · 13 answers · asked by amuch2much 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the way you're describing, you're probably intimidating. Something else? i wouldn't know..
2007-01-16 15:51:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you intimidate them because you appear unapproachable. Relax, smile, go with the flow of life. Don't appear so uptight or too confident because you are obviously not comfortable with it anyway. Don't project what you are not. Just be yourself. Better to look preoccupied that confident. Good luck.
2007-01-16 23:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are confident, then you should approach the ones you would want to approach you, especially if they're looking. They could be intimidated I guess...
2007-01-16 23:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence in yourself is not a turn off. some times a person may think they are sending one signal like confidence but the one that is really going out is I am an uptight b!tc$.
could that be it are your clothes and mannerisms sending that signal . i don't know but its a thought.
2007-01-16 23:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably appear untouchable to guys. you may seem too classy and out of their league. guys wont approach you if they think they dont have a chance with you. guys are like us..they dont like rejection.
they do like confidence, but maybe you are putting off a vibe of overconfidence. they may think that you think you are "better" than them. that leads to them thinking you arent interested.
if you see someone you like or would like to hook up with, be a little flirty, but not slutty. most guys are turned off by that. show mature interest in him..and see if he reciprocates.
and yes...you are probably inadvertantly scaring them away. sure you dont mean too...but it seems that you are. try taking it down a notch, dress well, but dont over dress. smile more, bat your eyelashes, act a little coy, make eye contact. some flirty little gestures that will tell the opposite sex "hey i'm interested", and see if they start showing any interest. but if they do, let them make the first move, you'll seem slutty if you are throwing yourself at them. majority of guys dont like that. in their minds its like "hmmm...does she do that to all the guys? and if she does, what makes me so special then?"
good luck x
2007-01-16 23:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by jeneric803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys get intimidated by the smallest of things, so just look like your having fun and that u are friendly
2007-01-16 23:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz relax, ur tryin 2 hard......be urself and have fun doing it..u might b scaring them off with ur "oh so confident " look. You might appear to them as stuck up or too high saditty( think ur way too much and too fine for them) So calm down and get comfortable!!!
2007-01-16 23:46:48 · answer #7 · answered by miss sweethang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you're conceited and don't want to approach you. It's good to be confident but you sound a little conceited.
2007-01-16 23:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something else. There's nothing wrong with a girl who's confident
2007-01-16 23:43:56 · answer #9 · answered by Todd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically all the guys where you are from are cowards.
what kind of guy is scared of approaching a girl? i mean whats the worst that can happen, you get get rejected. really doesn't mean anything, cause you'll probably never see her again. but yeah guys where you live are cowards.
2007-01-16 23:46:16 · answer #10 · answered by broken_monkey08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋