2007-01-16 15:32:00 · 14 answers · asked by Jeziah15 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
stay away from the non-believer, trouble for those who are unequally yoked. PAIN.
2007-01-16 15:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing. You really can't control who you fall in love with. If your Christian and you fall in love with a non Christian, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
If you decide to get married, make sure that you have an understanding about how any children will be raised (Christian vs non Christian) and that both of you will respect the decision. For example, if you marry an Atheist and you both agree that the children should attend Christian Services, your partner should not speak ill of the religion.
2007-01-16 15:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by David T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bible will tell you that you should not be unequally yoked. That being said, my first wife was a spirit filled woman who had an incredibly hard time with her marriage vows. So when I got remarried it was to a red-headed, agnostic, California girl from an athiest family complete with a gay uncle. I've found that we've had an interesting impact on each other over the years.
I've learned that the world isn't so black and white. I've learned that sometimes the things I learned at the pulpit weren't always consistent with the gospel. She has learned what she calls her, "baby faith" and that sometimes hope and speculation is all we have. Accepting the truth in another's point of view makes me no less saved and if she's made just a little room in her heart for Jesus I am confident he will make a place for her in the hereafter.
Being equally yoked was a disaster for me. Being unequally yoked has been one of the most enriching and eye opening experiences of my life. Of course, individual results may vary.
2007-01-16 15:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a true Christian who puts your love of the true God above all other things in your life, I cannot imagine that you could even consider having a true friendship with anyone who did not also love him above all others, let alone actually pursue a relationship. But, since you are considering it, consider having to choose between the person you care about most and your God who created you and sustains your every breath--how will you decide?? Do you want it to get that out of control before you have to make that kind of decision??
2007-01-16 16:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkle1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how important is the role of religion in your life. Simply put, if you feel a need to pray several times a day, watch religious shows on TV and go to church every Sunday, then you certainly need to find someone who would share your devotion to God. If, on the other hand, you are a Christian merely by birth, but not otherwise religious, then finding a Christian mate is not that important. In other words, in that case someone who simply comes from the same culture and similar upbringing would be just fine.
2007-01-16 15:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by rp121121 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any rule that says you have to date a christian guy but it makes things alot easier. There is nothing wrong dating someone who isn't Christian. However, you might realize later on that issues might come up that will be based around the differences in your beliefs and your boyfriend's beliefs. It is also easier to grow together in your spiritual relationship with someone who has the same beliefs.
2007-01-16 15:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by andrygirl03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion hath light with darkness?" (KJV) II Corinthians 6:14.
If you are not careful, instead of you influencing your boyfriend, he could influence you and lead you into worldly things. Just something to think about in making your decision. God bless you!!!
2007-01-16 15:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have gone with both aspects, it is alright if they dont believe. We as christians want to spread the word to those who are willing to hear. With another you can share in reading and studying the bible as well as groups, with one who isnt you can try to convey your ideals but be careful not to push the subject if they dont want to hear it.
2007-01-16 15:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only find peace in yolking yourself with another believer.
2 Corinthians 6: 14-18
David T
2007-01-16 15:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I've down that road. It's better to have a relationship with someone who has the same beliefs.
2007-01-16 15:35:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anton Mathew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide that.
If you marry a non religious guy, or a guy who is of a different faith, your life will be more difficult than if you marry a Christian.
If you think you can handle it (and be sure to pray about it) then you can do this.
2007-01-16 15:37:31 · answer #11 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋