I keep looking at this guy who goes to the same place I go to for recreation. We do things in a group and we are well aware of each other. I met him in the summer and I have known him to be like a brother to me... until one day something happend. I start dreaming about us being in a relationship together. On Christmas Eve, I dreamed about him picking out a ring and we were shopping together. Then I dreamed about us being at the recretional facility together and I said to another person, "I like the was he looks at me. He looks at me like I a little boy who just got candy or a new toy. One time, he smiled and told me he missed me. Then when I am around him, I can't talk to him. Sentence fragment come out of my mouth and can't think properly. Then I end up looking like and idiot in front of him. I wake up thinking about him contently in the morning and when I fall asleep and I want the best for him. Could I be falling in love for the first time?
2007-01-16 15:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa Svetlana Flavored Coffee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's love :)-I actually had my 1st love when I dreamed about this guy I knew-after I woke up and saw him, I started thinking more and more about him. Yes, it's love. Congrats. You get nervous and your words tangle-because you care what he thinks and don't wanna mess up-because you like him. I know it's hard; believe me, but try to think-be myself; be myself; and take deep breaths-and you'll be calm-at least this should help. And, pay attention to his mannerisms, to see if he has the hots for anyone. soccercuttie06@hotmail.com-if you wanna talk...as you know I also have boy drama-lol. WHY?
2007-01-17 03:49:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point you are infatuated with him which is how a lot of relationships start. At this point, since you don't really know him on a deeply personal level, you have a fantasy of what a relationship with him would be like. You won't know if you are truly in love with him until you get to know him, the infatuation stage is over and you find out that still want to be with him, warts and all.
2007-01-16 23:14:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be due to the dream that you think that way. But...sometimes u just need a little push to really realise what you want. I guess this 'push' of your's is the dream. And wow, to a 3rd person it does sound like u're in love. =) All the best for ya!
2007-01-16 23:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by travisdude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its love, if it was lust you wouldn't dream about picking out rings or going shopping
2007-01-16 23:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe little one...tell him and see what he says about it, he could be thinking the same thing to...and relationship last longer if your friends first, but if it doesn't work out, just tell him you still want to be friends...yeah, you could be having deja-vo, that could have been next Christmas...you never know...give a shot...
2007-01-16 23:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by drjayz_22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your in love, no doubt, get to know him better and those dreams could come true, they did for me, i had the same dream (about a girl of course, im not gay) make your dreams come true...
2007-01-16 23:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by 88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOOOOOH! That sounds like L-O-V-E. If u like him tell him about it maybe he feels the same way.U would never know unless u find out.
2007-01-16 23:13:04 · answer #7 · answered by bbiy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is definitely possible... those signs sounds like love... well if he is your friend and all..... friends with benefits right? whos easier to fall in love with rather than your own friend.... those dreams are giving you signs.... its fate like my friend use 2 say... have fun dreamin bout him and good luck... :)
2007-01-16 23:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by dementor012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pure true love
2007-01-16 23:09:17 · answer #9 · answered by cadbury_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in love, just flirt with him and make move.. ^_^
2007-01-16 23:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by wEnNy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋