The guy I'm dating acts like he is in love with me. He breaks plans with his friends to be with me when it is convenient for me, he drove 2 hours to come to my house, and wants to come over again, he emails me often when we are apart, he is opening up to me about his past, he kisses me for a long time, even when it's not a part of foreplay, he wants me to sleep over and cuddle all night, and is upset when I leave, he doesn't like me talking to my ex-bf. Yet he says he just wants a casual r/ship. Could it be because of the distance? We live 2 hours apart. Or could it be because we are not really into the same lifestyle? He is a gothic/punk musician and I am just a normal, professional person. Thanks for your help!
2007-01-16 14:59:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he probably thinks that the music thing could get him other girls, and he doesn't want to be tied down if an opportunity presents himself
2007-01-16 15:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants a "buddy". Don't get upset about it. I had one and their great for those in-between peroids when you either just had a break up, or are looking for someone. You never feel lonely and can always be satisfied when your horny:). Make a pact that if the other is with someone else, thay have to mention it and give the other the option of pulling out. It's a win win situation.
2007-01-16 23:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by melisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're convenient. I wish I could find me a good woman like you to play.
2007-01-16 23:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE REALLY DOES LIKE YOU AND HE CHANGED HIS MIND ABOUT THE WHOLE CASUAL RELATIONSHIP THING!! A LONG RELATIONSHIP DOES MAKE YOU WANT TO BE WITH THE OTHER PERSON FOR LIKE EVER WHEN YOU SEE THEM!!!! HEY OPPOSITES ATTRACT, I THINK HE DOES LIKE YOU GURL!!!!
2007-01-16 23:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes being with you despite lifestyle differences --- just go with the flow and see what happens --- dont read too much into it
2007-01-16 23:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should speak to him about this, tell him you are getting mixed signals. It should go on well from there.
2007-01-16 23:03:31 · answer #6 · answered by L.Sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That dork is whipped -- lucky man...
2007-01-16 23:06:17 · answer #7 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no clue. the best i can tell you is to ask him directly
2007-01-16 23:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is having his insecurrrities
2007-01-16 23:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by cadbury_heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋