Dont take the micky but .....Argh i,m just gona say it.
I havent kissed or seen another mans willy since 1987!!!
I separated from my ex pig ages ago. I got asked out the other day by a gorgous mmmm of a man (i,v known him years). After getting over the "going all stupid and red" moment, then having a skip in the garden.
I realised just how long its been. I dont know what to do now. Should i go or not? I really want to but i dont want to make myself look stupid.
2007-01-16 14:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by NIcole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi you have my total sympathy to your dilemma, ive just got out of an awful relationship that destroyed my self respect and confidence and im terrified of at the thought of having to start dating again, but i think your lucky in that you already know this person, you wont look stupid, remember he asked you out so an attraction by him is already there, take the plunge hun wot have you got to lose? you never know you might actually enjoy it!!!!!! good luck.x
2007-01-17 01:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by unhappy bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone on here a few weeks ago recommended taking off your clothes and walking around the house naked on the day of the date in order to become comfortable with your own body. I think that's a good idea. I think it is also important to give yourself confidence by spending some time choosing an outfit, getting your hair styled (though not too dramatic or you will feel self-conscious!) and having your nails done. Don't think too much about what you will talk about - if you know him well, it will just happen anyway. Don't expect too much to happen on the first date as your friend may also be a bit nervous about the whole thing - just keep it friendly and don't be tempted to drink more than you know you can handle!
And that's it, really! I think it must feel like a first date for you all over again - rather exciting. Let us know how you get on, please!
2007-01-16 16:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go for it, you dig him and he digs you so i'm sure he won't find you silly or anything. Beside if you don't go he might think that you're not into him and ask someone else and you end up losing him. You don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what could have been you know, so go and if it doesn't work at least you know you gave it a try and he simply wasn't the right one.
2016-05-23 22:52:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, that's long!! Get a move on gal, if u were asked, why not have a try?? It wouldn't hurt, if it doesn't work out, just don't worry. There must be some1 else out there, I believe this thing that when u were born, u got matched with some1 else. It is a matter of time u meet that other half, time you cant control because it is not in your hands. But chances, you can't let it pass away!!
2007-01-16 14:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Boffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you go or not? Is a very stupid question. Ofcourse GO! GO! GO! Aren't you so excited enough that this finally came? Just take it easy and slow and just be yourself. If this guy really likes you, whatever happens everything will go smooth. Good Luck and keep smiling.
2007-01-16 14:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Princess Kym 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax go and have fun.. the nice thing about things, is you will not forget.. it is like riding a bike,... once you learn you do not forget no matter how long it has been.. take a deep relax and go with the flow!. It will all be good!.
Why not !!! Go for IT!! Good luck and have fun.. and oh yeah be your self!
2007-01-16 14:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by purpleyellowroses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unless you want to be saying the same thing in another 20 years time I suggest you seize the opportunity.
2007-01-16 17:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by SR13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just go, have fun, and don't worry about the rest. A first date doesn't have to be anything physical if you don't want it to be, but even if it does come to that I'm sure you will be fine. Just relax! Good luck :)
2007-01-16 14:51:24 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it and it is just like riding a bike (you never forget) and even if you do something silly that you will regret you would regret not going even more
Just go and be yourself he obviously likes you or he wouldn't have asked you out.
Good luck and have fun xx
2007-01-16 20:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mmm of a man, huh!? YES, go chick and have fun. Don't do anything I wouldn't do. And by that I mean don't skip in the garden.
2007-01-16 14:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋