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im not sure if this girl likes me or not. I caught her staring at me yesterday and her and her friend was throwing food at me. she easid drop in my coversation yesterday and i seat on the other side of the room. she acts weird in class to try to attract attention. when her friend or her isnt near me she acts very quite. she is shy and were both 15. she liked me sept, and I asked her out in late october but she rejected me. so does she like me and also what should I do.

2007-01-16 14:45:48 · 5 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

im also shy

2007-01-16 14:46:06 · update #1

5 answers

Well, It's possible that she's shy too. She might not have expected you to ask her out and paniced. I would suggest just waiting, and maybe continue to watch for signs of interest.
I found this on a website, it might help you tell:

Sometimes the direct approach is best - just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs.

Behavior
Instructions

*STEP 1: Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question. Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
*STEP 2: Is this person "accidentally" running into you in places where he or she knows you will be, such as at your desk? At the Laundromat on Tuesdays? At your brother's birthday party? *STEP 3: Make a note if he or she mentions future plans to spend time with you: "That band is coming to town soon. We should really get tickets."
*STEP 4: Spend time alone together. Canceling other plans in order to be with you longer, or not finding excuses to leave, could be a sign of interest.
*STEP 5: Has he or she been calling for random reasons, such as, "I was wondering if you knew what that pizza place down the street is called," followed by, "Are you hungry?"
*STEP 6: Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something - and it's probably not your stamp collection.
*STEP 7: Observe how the person acts around your friends - he or she might be extra friendly to your closest pals for a reason.

Body Language
Instructions

*STEP 1: Sometimes seeing someone you have a crush on results in telltale physiological signs. Does the person in question blush when you look at him or her? His or her sympathetic nervous system is probably going into overdrive. Does he or she have trouble speaking, using jumbled words when talking to you?
*STEP 2: See if the person in question mirrors your motions: When you lean back, he or she leans back; when you put your elbows on the table, he or she does the same.
*STEP 3: Note whether this person sits or stands in the open position - that is, facing you with arms uncrossed. In addition, a woman tends to cross her legs in a man's direction.
*STEP 4: Does he or she move closer to you and/or touch you subtly, such as with a pat of your hand or a touch of your cheek?
*STEP 5: Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away, energetic speech coupled with open hands, and flashing palms.
*STEP 6: Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?

Something else I noticed in addition is that some people are different, and might be good at hiding signs! If these don't help,
I know more intensive ways to find out, so let me know.

2007-01-16 15:00:46 · answer #1 · answered by Nobody 08 2 · 0 0

You should probably find out more about her and then casually invite her to do an activity that you know she would like, maybe to go see a movie she has been wanting to see, or something to that respect. Hanging out with someone as friends is a good way to get to know one another.

2007-01-16 22:58:52 · answer #2 · answered by mycahsc 2 · 0 0

If she's throwing food she wants your attention. Do you want the attention of a girl who throws food?

2007-01-16 22:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0 0

Pass her a note and ask her over to watch movies at your house.

2007-01-16 22:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0 0

she could just be playing with you. pay attention to how she acts around other guys as well.

2007-01-16 22:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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