I am a 23 year old and I just cant seem to leave the old chicks alone, I see girls my own age and even younger than me that I am attracted to and I can't seem to ever be relaxed enough to make a proper advancement. I don't know what makes me so nervous.
2007-01-16 14:37:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause you feel that the older women really need you Rather than the younger once, but you have to try your own if you no what i mean.
2007-01-16 14:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm your age and all the women I know our age are immature, needy and just plain ridiculous when it comes to relationships. I have the same issue I want an older man because there more mature and being that I have a 4yr old I'm a bit more mature than my girlfriends. I want to settle down and I look to an older man for stability, maybe that's the same problem you have. Being in a relationship that is comforting makes you feel so much better, stick with it there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel the comfort of an older women. They teach you a few things and make you feel good.
2007-01-16 14:56:36 · answer #2 · answered by suprsarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know...I am an older woman (43) who enjoys the company of younger men. I have always gone out with and had long term relationships with such. I know that I do not act or look my age, which in turn attracts younger men. I also have some friends whose age is different by at least 10 years and they are all happily married...quit worrying about it and just go for what your heart desires and you will find happiness.
Those who say that you are "weird" should maybe look at themselves before throwing big fat rocks....
2007-01-16 14:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Texas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel comfortable with someone who makes you feel they're your mum or something because you don't have enough confident to be with someone of your own age. The next time you see a girl of your age that you like, take a deep breath and make friends with her first. No other intention. The longer you are friends with her, the more comfortable/ confident you feel. To break loose your problem, you need to take the first step. The rest will get easier as you go along. Good luck!
2007-01-16 14:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older Women know the ropes. The little High School girls can't compete against a grown Woman. She can't hang with the big girls.
2007-01-16 14:43:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that "old" chicks are easier for you to talk to? Why would a younger girl be more demanding. Women are human, ya know? I hope these "old" chicks know that they are second choice for you.
2007-01-16 14:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how was/ is your relationship with you mom? maybe ur using this as an exucse to not put yourself out there with girls ur own age--are you afraid of rejection? take a chance. good luck
2007-01-16 14:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with older women
they will appreciate you more than a young PITA and demanding girl will
beside they will show you the ins and out of sex
something young one can't
2007-01-16 14:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This might not be a bad thing maybe an older woman is better because they have more experience....or not
2007-01-16 14:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋