okay, so please be nice. [=
i still have feelings for my ex,
i don`t know if he feels the same way
but he has been flirting with me lately.
we broke up for a really stupid reason..
any time a girl talks to him,
or even if he goes out to a public place
with girls i just can`t help but to get jealous !
i don`t know what to dooo. =[
2007-01-16 14:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I think it's natural to be jealous of an ex.. I've had the same problem with girls in the past who I broke up with for a good reason and had no intention getting back together with. If it goes beyond just jealousy, like you still think about him a lot when he's not around then maybe you should think about getting back together with him. If not, then forget about it.. There's no problem with it...
2007-01-16 15:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately have soft spot for him don't you? You're being insecure about him and that's what allows you to feel that jealousy. There's nothing wierd about it - I felt the same way before with a guy. It's because you want him back and every other girl out there is a threat to that. It's going to take some time but you really have to get over that! Be more confident about yourself. If you let your emotions take over like that you're not going to be a very happy person. He will probably notice your confidence too. Jealousy is normal, just don't let it overtake you. You guys are lacking in the trust department and that takes time to build. If he asks you out again, you might want to let him know that's he going to have to help you learn to trust him, and vice versa. If he's flirting with you and doesn't ask you back out because he's being a playa - that's just as good of a confidence boost because then you have an opportunity to blow him off and move on.
2007-01-16 22:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your profile, you seems to be smart girl...
You should no jealousy is a normal feeling, all those people who are not jealous, have problems.
However, you are mix ting two things together. Jealousy does not justify that your reason was 'stupid' as you claimed.
YOUR reason, whatever it was, it was valid on day you made it...
ALWAYS, the passage of time, give us misleading feelings that our decisions in past were not correct. We must understand that these 'TODAY' feelings are incorrect.
Some guys like to enjoy many women at same time.
YOU should NOT allow flirting with you.
You shoul not follow any news about him, and when he called you, just tell him three words "Don't call me!" Show you have personality, and if you show that, you will find a right one...
2007-01-16 22:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Francine, your a very beautiful girl with a good head on her shoulders. This is a very good question and quite frankly I would be a fool to let a girl like you ever have a reason to get jealous over me. To be bold though. You broke up. You say you still flirt? then either get back together or just get over it. find a reason for him to be jealous. Either way. if you need any more advice or just a person to talk to who will listen with an unbiased oppinion contact me on 360, Im always around. Luke
2points!
2007-01-16 22:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by forgiving_madison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy will get you nowhere. You have broken up and you still wants him, then you should try to patch things up.
The other alternative is to look for someone new.
Good Luck
2007-01-16 22:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you officiously like him again, just talk to him and work things out the least you can get is no than never no it could have work.
2007-01-16 22:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it up to him by letting him know you still want to be with him.get his own side of it.if possible make up and be happy again.
2007-01-16 22:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by bright 247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋