Well me and my boyfriend just got in a agrument and he told me that he cheated on me with this girl named Ashley.. which he has said he has before then quickly takes it back. But he was like yes I did cheat on you with her like 4 times. The first time.. a few weeks after we started dating. (which was 2 years ago).. then this summer.. Then in September and the last time when I was shopping for his Christmas gift? So guys is this him telling me the truth or just trying to get to me. Oh he also said she was pregnant. (I am having a baby at the beginning of Feb.) What do you think?
2007-01-16 14:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ummmm... I think that if he told you that he cheated, then he cheated. I also think that he told you because he wanted to hurt you. If he had come to you and confessed, then asked for your forgiveness I might think else wise. Because he told you during a fight, I would consider it an aggressive act and emotionally/mentally abusive.
I know that you are having a baby but I would think long and hard about this relationship.
He would still have the right to visitation but do you want your child ot grow up thinking that the relationship that you have is the way you have a kind and loving relationship?
2007-01-16 14:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys get all weird when they are getting ready to have a baby.....but still he shouldn't be screwing with your head like this. None of us know your boyfriend....but you do. In your heart you know if he was telling the truth about being unfaithful. If he was unfaithful....that is a huge issue in your relationship. A relationship that is getting ready to have another person added!!
If he did cheat, and get her pregnant....I would advise that you two seek some counseling or you temporarily seperate until he is sure of what he wants. You don't want to be someone's 2nd choice.....trust me. Free yourself.....and you may find someone much better anyway!!
Good luck to you!
2007-01-16 23:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by diapercakesbybecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes hurting u,and i wouldnt trust him,girl time to move on..plus hes being an asshole telling u that,if he never did go out with her,,he also mite be telling u he would like too,in his own way..gl tc
2007-01-16 22:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's just trying to hurt you. People are vain like that.
2007-01-16 22:30:26 · answer #4 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like he's just triyng to hurt you
look him in the eyes and ask him if he was lying or not
most girls can tell when guys are lying
2007-01-16 22:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him for doing such a thing.
Or leave him for lying about such a thing.
2007-01-16 22:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would dump his **** and see what he does...u will have ur answer after that
2007-01-16 22:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋