Okay, so im in a long distance relationship with this guy for about 2 1/2 months. He lives 2000 miles away, i think i love him, but lately ive been starting to like this other guy who flirts with me non stop. i dont know what to do. I want to be with both of them but i know i cant. and i would never cheat on the long distance guy. What do i do?
2007-01-16 14:05:01 · 6 answers · asked by Ohio Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are not real relationships. You're in a relationship when you see each other on a regular basis, have arguments, and go on dates. Then you get married and/or move in together and then you have to learn about each others living habits, see each other everyday, be responsible for each other, and sometimes drive each other crazy, When you chat with someone over the internet or on the phone everyday that's not really you or him. You can be honest about your life and your feelings at that moment but it's not really you or him and how you guys really are and act. What are some of his bad habits? When you argue is he the one that likes to duke it out or leave the situation to cool off? Is he a crazy driver or a grandma driver? Does he leave the wet towel on the floor? Do you see where I'm going with this? Relationships are practically impossible to have long-distance, unless you dated each other before-hand and it's a temporary situation. If you don't want to 'cheat' on the long distance guy then you need to break it off. Or move to where he's at - which I would strongly not advise - bad idea. I don't believe he'd be willing to move where you're at either. If you think you guys can handle it just be friends so you can still talk. Maybe if you guys don't loose touch and still have feelings for each other down the road something will come out of it. Move on to something more tangible - like this cute new guy you're talking about that keeps flirting with you. I'm sure you'll enjoy his company.
2007-01-16 14:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by *Photo-op* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if you 'think you love him' then you most probably dont. probably cus the distance is too big to fuel the relationship. this other guy gives you attention and is close to you. which is something that every relationship needs. you need to find out who you like more. and you probably will after you get to know the guy that's closer to you better. if i were you id pick that one over the long distance guy for the sole reason that i dont like long distance relationships because on top of the fact that relationships are already hard, the long distance factor makes them harder. but your not me, so good luck with your decision!
2007-01-16 22:14:00 · answer #2 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love the long distance guy then no matter how much the other one flirts, you won't flirt back cuz your true love will be on your conscience like he's watching you. Try to set up a visit with your real honey so he can scratch your itch.
2007-01-16 22:12:16 · answer #3 · answered by ladylove79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go with the one that flirts. you dont have to worry about him cheating as much because he is near.otherwise there is a chance of being cheated on
2007-01-16 22:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take a break from the long distance guy and if you and him are met to be, then you one day will be!! you are young and you need to know your options...
2007-01-16 22:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by DSGG424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suggest a threesome.
2007-01-16 22:09:53 · answer #6 · answered by little miss green 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋