i m just wondering if this girl I like is giving me any test at all. and how do i deal with them if I get them in the future.
THANKS
2007-01-16 13:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by naruto's girlfriend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe in that.. I've heard many stories , but I don't agree in any logical reasons of someone being "tested". Its stupid and proves nothing..
Basically being tested in a relationship , means the person doesn't trust you and wants to "prove this" If there is no trust what's the point of even being in a relationship ?
2007-01-16 13:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't give guys tests, but I do observe behavior, especially little behaviors that give clues to how he's feeling about me.
For example, I know a lot of women will say this is stupid, but I value a guy that opens doors for me, naturally, meaning this is something ingrained in him that he would do for anyone, it shows that he is a generally kind person. you can easily tell when someone does stuff like that on purpose.
Also, being into the girl and not her body, once again something a girl can easily pick up on.
Mentioning any past exes or sexual behavior is the worst, and it makes you look tacky and bitter.
Any girl that asks you "does this make me look fat" has a self-esteem problem, and unfortunately for you there is no right answer to this question. Avoid at all costs.
However, if a girl asks, "how do I look?" upon preparing for an evening, honestly compliment her. The more open-ended the question, the better it is for you.
2007-01-16 13:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by little miss green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eds,
We had the same experience but only few of HER ways I understand and evenly pass those test. There are many ways a girl can give to a guy as a test. Yes, thats really stupid but for girls that is the only way of knowing how the guy responce that test. In other words that is the only ways of meassuring the guy how is He truly love the girl. Eds sometimes you can't predict if the girl is testing you already. What you need to do is only to find wether this girl is aware or conscious of her habit as testing you. If she does, perhaps she is only testing you, and for you to overcome that test all you need to do is to do what is right, think positive and always think for the reason of doing such thing.
2007-01-16 14:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Dave Melchor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! there are many tests and i don't have hours to explain all of them. We are very complicated creatures. Okay, i'll give u one for example. if a girl says "do whatever you want" she really means "You better not!" or if you ask her what's wrong and she says "nothing" after the two of you have argued, most likely it means that there is something wrong. lol
good luck trying to figure us out!
2007-01-16 13:57:46 · answer #4 · answered by candiec2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are just you then youll pass her tests. every girl has a different way of testing guys and there is no certain way to act or pass you just have to be yourself and hope for the best
2007-01-16 13:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on my own experience, when a gurl likes a guy but doesnt trust them enough or too scared to do so, they shows the opposite side of them to see whether the guy can accept and love them on their best and their worst... my friend always says "if you cant handle me on my worst, then you dont deserve me on my best"
kinda true isnt it? ^.~
2007-01-16 14:01:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't play games... I give it straight forward and don't test.
2007-01-16 13:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Princess♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u go with someone alil older their just " pop" quizes
no tests
2007-01-16 13:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They test your manhood. If you say sorry, you're their *****.
2007-01-16 13:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋