without wishing harm to someone .... how can i get "even" with someone who has deliberately hurt me?

Answer 1

You can do them more harm by not showing how much it hurt you, and get on with your life. Don't give them the satisfaction of seeing your hurt. Do not lower yourself to their level. Always fight fire with water, anger with compassion and forgiveness. Ignore this person if you can. If you can't ignore him/her just say "I forgive you" and walk away. That will take the wind out of their sails and you will feel good about yourself for having done so.

Answer 2

There IS a balance in life, ever so subtle sometimes, but there nonetheless. Karma will eventually return to this person, i.e. what you sow you will reap. Keep a kind loving soul inside and don't let someone that has hurt you destroy the things about you as a person that are pure and compassionate. JMO

Answer 3

The best revenge is living well! Never let the people who hurt you know how much their actions have affected you unless you allow them to be in a position to hurt you again.

Answer 4

You just better yourself every day. Ignore that person and go on to have a wonderful, rewarding life... without the hurtful person in it. And every now and then let yourself think (to yourself, of course) about what a complete jerk that person is. ;)

Answer 5

yo! please find something better to do with your time than brainstorming about how to get revenge on someone. The best thing to do is be the bigger person in the situation and let it go. do not sink down to their level.

Answer 6

Get them as far away from there home as you can, Take there clothes. Only leave them A taffeta cocktail dress to wear home.

Answer 7

In the Bible it says that the worst thing you can do to your enemies is shower them with kindness...it's like putting hot coals on their head. It will drive them nuts. :)