How can you tell the guy you like, you like him?
2007-01-16 13:37:21 · 15 answers · asked by XD 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, the problem youre facing is the fact that most guys (i am one, so i guess id know) arent all that good when it comes to subtlety. just kinda hang around him alot, make eye contact, smile, conversation is a key point. be like a freind and get to know him. ask him about himself, find details. passing notes is also good, dot an 'i' or something with a heart, i dunno - thats up to you. make yourself available, and if he doesnt ask you out first, say something like, "have you seen that movie _________? it looks really good, " if he hasnt seen it or something, say "well, do want to go see it sometime? maybe this friday?" something like that. if he seems a little withdrawn, kinda take it slow and make freindly conversation. ----good luck; dont let anything get in the way of your hearts desire.
2007-01-16 13:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by xxdemuffinman420xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt, first of all. Guys tend to be a little unsensitive in this area of expertise. In other words, guys usually don't even realize you're flirting with them. (Unless you do something extreme, like holding hands. But that's usually beyond flirting already). Just tell him your feelings! Or, you could just directly ask him out! (Telling him your feelings won't really do anything.) If you're the straightforward type of girl, just say "Hey __________, wanna go out?" If you are a little more thought out, just say "I know this sounds silly, but I was wondering if maybe you wanted to go out? If you don't, I hope we can still be friends!"
2007-01-16 21:45:59 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off with a simple conversation.. then bring up crushes.. after that just be like well i really like you more then a friend, after this see his expression and then if you can tell hes not interested ask if you guys can still be friends and then be like closer to him and he will probably start liking you too? give ahim a little bit of time to think about what you just told him he is probably very shocked or something.. ^^
~good luck, hope i helped...~
2007-01-16 21:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and tell him that you like him!
2007-01-16 21:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by saau2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slowly and maturely! Be honest with him, tell him how you feel and hopefully he will reciprocate the feelings. Don't miss out, because he may be feeling the same way but shy as well. Good Luck!!
2007-01-16 21:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by notnew2U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you can! However...
It's better to just SHOW that you like him. Because telling him you like him could freak him out if he doesn't already like you.
Good luck!
And if he doesn't want to be your friend before being in a relationship, well, he's not someone should be with...
2007-01-16 21:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by Joshua 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and be your self. If you like him then just tell him that you love him and you want to be with him. Just tell him from your heart.
2007-01-16 21:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by swimminglifeguard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i write him a note telling him i like him(i'm in high-school) but you might try talking to him in private and asking him what he thinks about you then you tell him your feelings about him
2007-01-16 21:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile at him. Go up to him and tell him how you feel.
Thats the only way!
2007-01-16 23:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm Walk up to him and look him in the eye and tell him "Hey, I really like you... " and see what happens
2007-01-16 21:41:51 · answer #10 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋