My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.
2007-01-16 13:35:40 · 9 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On yahoo, 80% of people, (usually guys, but girls say it too) that they think the only reason my ex is back and wants to hang out is cuz he thinks I'll eventually put out for him. But he knows my strict views on premarital sex, so he knows he can't trick me? Can't he just miss me?
2007-01-16 13:36:21 · update #1
yes he can miss you often a guy will dwell on the past and remember what fun he had and he will wish to have it back he probably misses the closeness or the friendship you to once had and he is trying to get it back
2007-01-16 13:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not chuffed in his present day relationship, yet that would not make a relationship with him artwork for you. there have been issues interior the relationship, or the two certainly one of your would not have chop up interior the 1st place. If those issues have not been resolved, then they could reoccur. My greatest concern along with his is that if he's prepared to handle this gf with such disrespect as to take out his ex, how trustworthy ought to he be? i could keep away from this occasion and purely tell him which you fairly % to pursue this new gentleman, and you will not % it to look which you're actually not obtainable. tell him which you experience it may be disrespectful to his gf for you and he to spend time mutually besides.
2016-10-31 07:46:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and thinks about you (probably a lot) but wants a relationship with sex (for now). Maybe he figures that when he is ready to settle down, he wants to have you in his life because you are the type that he would like to be with in the long term - but he is probably too immature to date you at this time.
2007-01-16 13:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Littlesby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure he misses you. He also doesn't want to miss out on the opportunity to get in your pants. I agree with everyone. I'm really sorry for the broken heart. I do understand the connection to a first love. It is time to walk away though hun.
2007-01-16 13:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kalypso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just misses you, but experience makes most of us a little cynical about it. You have to think back to what reasons he gave for breaking up with you. That's where you'll figure out what his intentions are.
2007-01-16 13:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your ex is a dumbass and hoping that buy continually having brief, but pleasant encounters with you someday you will eventually have sex with him. He probably dumped you because you wouldn't have sex with him in the first place. Simple solution: give it up to him and he'll probably stop bothering you.
2007-01-16 13:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by little miss green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way it looks, your ex must be testing himself to see if he still had his feelings for you... your the evidence of your relationship and he still want to know if he still had feelings for you by seeing you... coz it remind him of the old days you two were still together... ^.~
2007-01-16 13:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times do you need to ask this question?
2007-01-16 13:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's starting to mature.
2007-01-16 13:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋