my girlfriend and i recently decided to have sex for the first time, but being that we were/ are still virgins it didnt go as expected. We prepared to do it, but nothing really worked. Every position that we tried was incredibly awkward and nothing felt comfortable as insertion never really occured. At no point did any of us have an actual good shot to do it, and though we lined everything up, nothing seemed to work. Is it because my bed is so soft that you seem to meld into it and i could get no "push"? Did anyone else have this problem? Serious answers please...
2007-01-16 13:19:44 · 8 answers · asked by qstn_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you ask a serious question....you'll get a serious answer.
God!!!
2007-01-16 13:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no one gets it right the first time----but how you react is crucial-----you can overreact and never get past this dilemma....or have a laugh and really break the tension. It will be funny a couple of years from now. You probably looked at it way too fast--are you really ready? Are you ready for the baby that might come? Are you using protection? Are both of you mature enough and truly truly in love enough to express the love the way sex expresses it? If it isn't done with the proper emotions, it doesn't mean a thing. properly approached, it is almost always a mental state that really helps to get you together....you just don't do it like starting a car. Get some books on the subject, or if you don't mind a video---rent one. Being aroused is for both of you---it's OK to get really warmed up-----it will happen as you get more experience and God, be at ease with each other. Have Fun ,kids
2007-01-16 21:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Woman on top pretty much solves all your problems. Make sure you have enough foreplay that you've got it up and it's going to stay that way and you're both relaxed and comfortable. Lay on your back and have her sit on top of it so everything's where it needs to be and rock her hips back and forth. You can stimulate her clitoris in the position, and you will get deep penetration. The only thing I have to say negatively about this is be careful that the condom doesn't work its way off, as this happened to me and my ex once. I think it wasjust cuz he was too small for it to stay on, though.
2007-01-16 21:27:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no mate you were obviously doing some thing wrong it should be quite an easy task look if you have to, (remember fore play or it wont work) line up find the entrance with your finger then go (it could be hard if you have only a little man but it should still work) my first was easy and completely fine
2007-01-16 21:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by auzzie_bloke21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL :) guess neither one of you was really ready to have sex. it's not that hard to figure out and if you really wanted to then you would've hit the floor or the couch. wait a couple of years and try again.
2007-01-16 21:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone's first time is awkward
practice makes perfect man!
2007-01-16 21:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u find it akward thne i dubt u are really ready
2007-01-16 22:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by carebear_destroyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no youre just bad
2007-01-16 21:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋