After 3 entire years, does he finally have the same feelings as I do for him?

Question

Now, after all of this time, does he finally love me?
Ok, here's the deal. I am in love with my best guy friend. And he knows I like him.
Last night, I posted a bulletin on Myspace saying "I don't think I love him anymore." He messaged me back, asking me why I don't like the guy anymore. I said it was because he was too far away and I could never have him.
His reply was "Oh...umm...well I'm glad that you're moving on. Do I know this guy?"
I said, "I doubt it." He said, "Oh. Ok. Well."
And then we stopped talking for the night. This morning, he called me, asking if I wanted to come over and spend the day with him. I declined, because I was busy. He seemed very sad and when I asked him why doesn't he ask his girlfriend, he said that he didn't feel like it.
A few days ago on New Years Eve, as soon as the ball dropped, he called me and wished me a happy New Years. I asked him this morning if he ever called his girlfriend, and he said "Uh...no...I was busy."

Now, he is trying to spend more time with me then his girlfriend. He calls me in the middle of the night, just to talk about life. He is more close to me than he's ever been. And now that I have in a way rejected him, I feel like he finally realized what he could of had and is now falling for me.

What should I do? I still love him with everything I have. Should I act on it?

Btw, now he is bothering me all the time, asking me when I am getting my braces off. His gf has like another year to go with them, and I really don't know what the hell he wants.

Try & give me as many answers as possible so that I can make the right decision with the support of numerous people.

Thanks.

Answer 1

Talk to him and ask him.
Good Luck

Answer 2

Alright, i'm kinda of confused of whether or not he likes you. because if he does then he wouldn't say "well I'm glad that you're moving on" But then again this is the way i see it as an individual. although, if he asked you why you don't like him anymore and persuave you that maybe you should wait for a while or something like that would say that he's Definitely interested but don't have enough time to act.

Anyways, by all means he might be interested the way you think he does. Since he knows that you don't love him anymore and that GOT HIS ATTENTION then use this as your stronger tool. Now if he wants to spend more time with you alone Make sure that you won't let things happen that easily WHY? it's because you would want him to slowly realize that he have missed out big time and that he had his chance to be with you but not anymore. Also if you want to test him if he likes you...this is what you have to do...make him think that lately there's a guy that is after you but make sure you have to be very secretive about it...that would certainly get him hooked on by always wanting to talk to you. Also tell him how great this "GUY" is and that he is nothing compare it with the "PERSON" who you use to like. the KEY is to PLAY the game slowly...and play it right!

Good luck

Answer 3

Eeee, I may not know a lot, but I do feel that I know what love is, being the trust and sacrifice you give to/ do for somone of your own free will, and it takes time to form that level of a bond. I'm not quite sure how you could love him without spending romantic time together, but okay, I'll bite. I'd stay away from this one. He may be the object of your affection, but he's dating someone else. Look at this way (as maybe you have), if he's going behind his girlfriend's back now, just wait 'til you're the next one up. In other words, if he's dishonest with someone he claims to love now, would it really be any different once he says he loves you? If he hasn't dumped his other girl for you by this point, I'd save yourself for someone who is more deserving of you than he is. I'm not trying to tell you what to do, just offering friendly advice :)

Answer 4

Wow. Okay first of all he is DEFINTIELY showing feelings for you. The big giveaway was when he responded to your bulletin. That was a BIG giveaway LoL. Especially when he knew that you used to like him! So i definitely think he likes you back now..

But the problem is that he's taken. And you can't really do anything with taken ppl because.. well they're taken! And if he can't break up or something, or back off while he's taken, then I'd just leave him alone for now.

Answer 5

Obviously he's interested remember you only have one life! You must do everything in your reach to live it to the fullest! If you feel something for him you should definately go for it! What's the worst thing that could happen! You get a no and you move on! But, what if you get a yes! What a life you would have then! Remember that when you are born you born crying and everyone around you is smiling! You must live your life so that when you die everyone around you is crying and you are the one that's smiling!!!!!!!! Maybe he didn't want to go for it 'cuz he tought he didn't have a shot 'cuz you were hung up on this supposed mystery man!

Answer 6

Tell him how you feel. Both of you should be aware of both of your feelings, and then act accordingly. There's absolutely no point in trying to figure out what he's thinking based on his actions. Be as blunst as possible say: look, I like you, do you like me? from there, figure out what the two of you want to do about the situation.