i like this kid in my class. Everyone, even his own friend says that he likes me and we flirt all the time. But when ever people ask him about me he blushes. I want to go out with him but I don't want to wait and i don't want to ask him and face humiliation. what do I do?
2007-01-16 12:50:13 · 13 answers · asked by Bity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to this guy. but don't do it around his or your friends, it's way too humiliating and if he likes you he'll feel pressured to say yes. tell him you like him and ask if he wants to go out with you. do it straight up. please don't twist your hair and ask sweetly. the guy will think you're a ditz and have no brain, believe me. i've seen it before and asked my boyfriend about it and he says that he thinks the girl is a ditz. just be yourself and don't figit or play with you hair or clothes. it's a turn off to guys
2007-01-16 12:57:03 · answer #1 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he blushes wheever someone talks about you, then that can be a sign that he's fond of you! You said he & you flirt a lot, then that's a plus! However, I suggest hang out with him more get to know each other like friends, then build up the courage and tell him the feelings you have towards him! I am in the same situation as you are, so I finally told myself to slow down and get to know him better. Currently, he and i are firends(not close friends) and flirt with each other...........i am just waiting for himto make the move, since i get the feeling that he likes me. SO, jst get to know the guy and be friends with him, then you can confide your true feelings for him in the future! Good Luck!!
2007-01-16 13:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this is 07' females are asking guys out too. Don't be ashamed or worried about facing humiliation. Just pull him to the side and ask if he says no then say ok and all your worries are gone. Im pretty sure hell be thinking bout you after all of that happens and may come back to ask you out later
2007-01-16 13:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by poohbeark19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you has to make the next move. If you really like him and think he remotely likes you, go for it. The worst that can happen is that he's not interested in having a girlfriend. Don't let that stop you from asking.
But for godsakes, don't do it publicly. As you can see, he's a little shy and you'll make him even more uncomfortable by letting the whole world know how you feel about him.
2007-01-16 12:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok im going through the sammeee thing well if oyu wait too long he might thionk your not interested and just move on soo if he doesnt do anything then you should make the first move.. i mean guys are as shy as us girls.. and he probably likes you back and is thinking the same thing as you!! even if he says "no" you can always say ok then can we still be friends??? and its ok take a chance.. i am pretty sutre if he shows signs like blushing and everyone says he likes you back you hosuld totally go for it!!
hope i helped!
~good luck~
ps yeah i am going thru the same thing as you!! so trust me!!
2007-01-16 12:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by (: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, the only way to do it with integrity is to bite the bullet and speak to him. Ask him to go someplace relatively private--ie can you sit iwth me at this lunch table for a minute. Tell him you like him and would like to go to a movie or whatever you want to do and then go from there. If he says yes, hooray. If he says no, then you are near your friends and can say, thanks anyway and get back to your day without having to make a big presentation of leaving.
2007-01-16 12:55:04 · answer #6 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all asking him out and getting "rejected" is not utter humiliation. unless for some stupid reason you do it in front of everone. and if the kid blushes everytime they ask him about you it's probably cus he's shy and he likes you. i think this is a safe bet. make the move and ask him out. if not, you will regret it.
2007-01-16 13:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to ask him then you have no choice but to wait until he asks you. There is no other way.
2007-01-16 12:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter telling him how u feel about him and ask him if he will go on a date withu to get to know each other better if it goes well then ask him to be your boyfriend
2007-01-16 13:06:16 · answer #9 · answered by lea b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him on msn or on the phone it5s less humiliating
2007-01-16 12:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by LoVeR** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋