I'm just curious because I get the impression women might think something like, no way, something must already be wrong with him, or maybe they would only want to be with men who have previous experience.
2007-01-16 12:47:21 · 23 answers · asked by mmwreal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it matters all that much. You don't have to tell someone right away- when it comes up later just say that you haven't found the right person yet, and you didn't want to get involved just for the sake of getting involved (or the truth, whatever it is). There are a lot more women in their early 20's who haven't been in a relationship than you would think- there's just the expectation that we all have been.
I would add, though, that if you're interested in dating, get yourself out there and start seeing women. You have to start sometime, and by default if you do enough dating you're bound to find someone.
2007-01-16 12:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certain women,the wild ones that put out, would grab you up in a heartbeat, waiting for the special moment to rob you of your little virginity. Women like this are more than anxious to do this because they feel it is their JOB.
To find these kind of women, you will have to look high and low...depending on how big of a town you live in. I'd search the nightclubs (dance),adult book stores and of course the internet. Try this once: Pick a bar where there is a live band playing or where the place is known for having a lot of hot, sexy and attractive women hanging around. Get your own table in plain view where all the action is going on at and bring a book that is an interesting conversation piece. You'll be surprised how many women will come up to YOU and ask what you are doing reading a book in a bar! Take the bull by the horns from there, but don't tell them of course that your a virgin right away.
2007-01-16 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you get to know the woman and you two discuss your pasts. You can simply explain to her why you haven't had a relationship yet, and if she likes you why should she care anyway? As far as experience goes, many women would even prefer a man who hasn't been around the block 20 times. I think your best bet is to date a virgin, because many women who are virgins would prefer to be with other virgins. When I met my boyfriend we were both virgins with little relationship experience, and the fact that we got to experience everything together for the first time made it so much better. We are now engaged!
2007-01-16 20:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by marvy18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, as a first impression, it's weird. Some people who are really insecure about a certain thing tend to blurt it out as part of their first impression that they make on people. Bad bad idea. I assume that you know how to be cool and confident. Keep this on your mind when you first meet a girl.
But! It is also a weapon. Sooner or later during a date, the conversation will turn toward past relationships. It is inevitable. That is when you bust out your nuclear bomb: "well, up until now, I haven't really found anyone that was worth it." BOOM! The blast will most likely send both her shirt and skirt flying off. I hope you have protection!
Cheers
2007-01-16 20:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this would not come off as a turn-off for women. If they like you they like you....I rather be with someone who hasn't been in a relationship, then someone who has been with an overwhelming number of relationships. Although, I must say a women may wonder and want to know why you have been single for so.
But no, it's not a turn-off in any event. If anything, an added benefit ( no baggage, no crazy exes, etc :] )
2007-01-16 21:08:53 · answer #5 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it wouldn't be a turnoff. Not to a sensible woman.
Some people don't get into relationships for one reason or another, but it does not mean anything is wrong with the person.
I didn't get into a real relationship with a man until my late 20s. So you're not alone there.
2007-01-16 20:52:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tara662 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to say that you have not a whole lot of experience (unless u have had women but no real relationship). sometimes it could come off as a you wont be able to stay just with me sorta message or a ur not trustworthy.
BUT when you find the right woman she will be honoured to be ur first and will most likely love you even more for that.
DONT GIVE UP!!!
good lcuk
2007-01-16 20:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by brunette_attraction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it would depend on why you haven't been in a relationship. some people just bloom a lot later than others... maybe you've been going to school all this time trying to get your md so you had no time for girlfriends... maybe your shy...
i'm sure that 25 year old boys who've not been in a relationship are sweeter and more appreciative of you.
2007-01-16 21:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that people don't have an age thing because I am 23 and never have been in any kind of relationship.
2007-01-16 20:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we take as a sign that somwthing is wrong with a guy if they have never been in a relationship. The other opinion is that we might think you are lying.
2007-01-16 20:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by Loves Ladybugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋