my girlfriend ( who i just am starting with--we went on one date) said she wants me to do something that i dont normally do to her or for her...
I'm 14
i'm thinking when we are walking together I will be like "woah! look at your hand, its messed up." she obviously like "what" and I'll say "look at all the holes between your fingers! you need something to fill them, I could probably help with that" then i hold her hand and walk her to her bus.
2007-01-16 12:42:00 · 17 answers · asked by peejster909 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one of my friend's friends actually had this quote in her buddy info that said " the reason god put the spaces between your fingers is so that someone else could fill them" thats how i got the idea
2007-01-16 12:47:57 · update #1
i'm kinda shy around her, so i want something to lead up to holding her hand, not just grab it, i dont think i could do that
2007-01-16 12:52:00 · update #2
so, u really think it is a good idea?
she said she loves attention
2007-01-16 13:02:25 · update #3
When your walking just reach for her hand I am sure she is probably thinking why you don't hold her hand.Just be straight forward and not hide anything. You want know her response unless you either ask or make that move. Holding her hand will not disrespect nor cause any harm at all it will actually put a smile on her face knowing that you finally held her hand at school. Do what you think will work best. Just be very respectful of her and treat her like the lady she is. GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-16 12:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, juvenile playa. That's too many words, my friend. I was the same way when I was younger, and I have learned to appreciate the "strong, silent" approach.
How about when you meet her, exchange greetings, and you casually clasp her hand. Give her a smile, and walk to the bus stop together. Snarky comments are cute, yeah, but they kind of make you look like a punkass.
P.S. yeah, of course you are shy around her. you're 14! guess what, she feels the EXACT SAME WAY ABOUT YOU. no way in hell she's going to grab your hand. this is what girls talk about when they want a guy to "be the man". If you are both stuck behind something, in this case your mutual shyness, it's up to YOU to get over it, take her by the hand and lead her over with you. It's a tough, thankless job, my man (well, not exactly thankless, but the wages can suck!).
2007-01-16 20:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very cute. I know that the girls will treasure that cute thing, and maybe tell all of her friends. I'd find it cute, but I don't thrive on cute 24/7. :P Of course, that's a great start. Great idea, how did you come up with it?
2007-01-16 20:45:52 · answer #3 · answered by Minna C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay. One of my dates asked me if he could compare the size of my hand with his. I thought nothing of it and gave him my had, he kept it as he walked me to where I was going at the time.
This grew into a long term relationship
2007-01-16 20:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by mamayer6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute, but don't try so hard be yourself and look into her eyes & let it come naturally from the heart. The hard part is done getting her to be your girl. So, apprantely she does like u and; believe it or not she like u for u.
Good luck!
2007-01-16 20:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Spotlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice! Smooth moves. Your are talented. But put a little more work in it. Keep up the good work.
2007-01-16 20:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so sweet!! I remember being 14... a long time ago tho... You could buy her a rose or a teddy bear also.
2007-01-16 20:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is original!
Try it, I bet it will work but just don't do it in busy public place and loud it might embarrass her.
: ) Good Luck
2007-01-16 20:46:47 · answer #8 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cute.
You are turning out quite nicely!
2007-01-16 20:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what ever works for you.
Good Luck
2007-01-16 20:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋