I met guy at my friends club, and he bought me a drink, he was so nice and was only interested in me, he asked for my number but i told him her was moving to fast, so he gladly backed away. i thanked him for that and then later i kept seeing him everywhere for three days, then when i was in the store i saw him again, he didnt say anything but i decided and wrote my number down on a small peice of paper and walked passed him and slipped it into his hand, he called me right after i walked out of the store, and asked me out. so i did, and we had the most perfect date it was almost like a dream, i had sex with him on that date and i think im pregnant everything is showing signs of pregnancy should i tell him, i think he wont be too upset but i know there will be alot of trouble if some of my family finds out! what should i do?
2007-01-16 12:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... how old are you? That will determine what you should do. In my personal opinion.... I would option 1. Abort the pregnancy. Option 2. Bare the child only to agree to let a married couple who can not have children adopt it the day it's born. Option 3. Not tell him until you are showing, during this time you best be getting to know him in a super-fast kind of way. Option 4. Tell him and ask him his opinion.
But you should do this first..... take a pregnancy test.
2007-01-16 12:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the letter again, and again. You happily did everything you described on your own. You made decisions without much thought and now you have to think about a really big one...well make this decision yourself. It is a baby and will be the center of your life for 18 years. What does he plan on doing to support this baby with you---he is the father, you know. You need to tell him and then get on with notifying anyone else that the baby is going to be a part of your life. Get to a doctor and start with the care process. Start saving money, and finding a nice living enviornment. You don't have much time ---so get going. Show the baby love regardless of his involement...he may walk away. The fact is, you are not the first person to be in this situation---it does happen to millions around the world. No one will push you off a cliff or stay disappointed for very long. Walk tall and accept the gift from God----take responsibility as an adult. Best of luck to you and your baby.
2007-01-16 12:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sex before marriage is OK but on first date is rushing it. I think u should go out on more then1 date before u have sex. Number 2 if u think u my have sex some time soon get on birth control before hand. Now if you think your pregnant get a kit or better see a doctor to see if u are. Then if you r then yes tell him but make sure u r first. If your not get on birth control before u start having sex again. PS I'm pro life but do believe in birth control. If u are and he does not want to help with baby i think u should keep it and take care of it or give it up to a husband and wife that will raise it and love it
2007-01-16 12:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by sara a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First get a pregancy test to find out for sure. Second, yes tell him! If he is the father of the child, he is morally and legally responsible as are you. I don't want to preach, but I see a lack of responsibility here. If you think there will be trouble if some of your family finds out if you're pregnant, what were you doing having sex with a practical stranger?!
2007-01-16 12:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by johnsredgloves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all what age are you ? and you should have took it slow and had explained to him that you want ready to do any bad thing like that and if he would have got mad o well . so you need to talk to your parents about it and then go see the doctor. and that's OK if you gave him your number you and him could of just have been friends.So i hope it go threw good with this situation and you need to let your close friend and parents know. If you have any more questions i will be gladly to help you answer them.
2007-01-16 12:55:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to find out for sure if you are pregnet or not and if you are I think that you should let him know that you are and try to figure things out to decide on what to do. Also think about your future and what you want to do to help decide on what you want to do.
2007-01-16 12:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a test and determine FOR SURE whether you are or not before you do anything!!!! Then of course you should tell him and take it from there.
2007-01-16 12:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by raewrn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out if you are pregnant or not. if you are then tell him, if not then just enjoy the second date
2007-01-16 12:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to ask god not people on the internet
2007-01-16 12:44:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the first date you had sex you idiot now he is probably going to run you shouldn't have done that
2007-01-16 12:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋