My boyfriend and i hang out all the time at school. I mean..between every class, in the morning, and we take turns driving each other home. I feel bad because he never hangs out with his friends like he used to. I tell him to go and he says he rather spend time with me! Does he really rather just hang out with me instead of his friends or is he just worried he'll make me mad?
2007-01-16 12:29:31 · 18 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he's got puss on the brain
2007-01-16 12:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by bobby 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just let him know that you're fine with it if he wants to hang out with his friends every now and then. Let him know that it's okay and that you really don't mind, after all you can use a break from him too :) !
Maybe he just likes being around you and doesn't want to miss out. Maybe he's outgrown his friends and rather hang out with you because you're such an awesome girlfriend. :)
It seems like you guys have an open relationship, therefore I think he's choosing to hang out with you because he wants to. Not because he feels obligated too.
2007-01-16 20:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by UnknownJaneDoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he enjoys hanging out w/u & he wouldn't do it unless he wanted to. And, don't force him on other people-for the simple fact if something happens like he was hanging w/the guys & trouble happen (any kind). He would've been better off with you.
And, I use to make the guy I was hanging out w/be with me & when he got tired he told me & thats part of the reason he's gone. I feel ought to be your best friend, if we're together/especially if we're sleeping together.
2007-01-16 20:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Spotlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt he is worried about his friends if you have given him the chance to go and he still chooses to spend his time with you. I have a boyfriend like that once, and i ended up leaving him because i couldnt stand it that he was EVERYWHERE i went. His friends ended up being pretty mad at him for never paying any attention to them too. I wouldnt worry about it yet unless you start needing some space too. Just explain to him that you love him but your relationships should be well balanced.
good luck
2007-01-16 20:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are so hard to satisfy, you do the wrong thing it gets you in trouble and then you do the right thing and its still has some buts to it. Anyways, I think the guy likes hanging out with you, that's why he'd rather be with you than his friends or maybe there's something he's trying to get and he feels he has to impress you to get it. I'll rather go with the first reason unless you see other signs contrary to it
2007-01-16 20:34:29 · answer #5 · answered by lochness007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been together? It sounds to me like you are going through the "honeymoon" period of your relationship. I believe that he truly wants to spend time with you. You have told him to hang out with his friends, so why would he think you would be mad if he did? Don't be worried enjoy it.
2007-01-16 20:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you.
I'd tell him that you've made plans with your girl friends. Do this often enough so he will be driven to have his "guy time" too.
It is not healthy in the long run for two people to make each other their lives. You both need lifes outside of the relationship to be whole.
2007-01-16 20:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest that both of you spend one day with friends with out the other. It is important that you both have time with eachother, by yourself and with your own friends. My fiance and I make certain to have our own activities, we spend our time with friend and alone. Encourage him and let him know that it makes for a healthy relationship if you both have a balanced life.
2007-01-16 20:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by poof10958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be alittle bit of both.. try hanging out with him and his Friends .. as bad as it may sound it might not be too bad..Hope this helps..
2007-01-16 20:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he wants to spend time with you take advantage of it!!...tell him to maybe plan a guys night out..you and the girls go out...then you have the best of everything..but enjoy quality time!!
2007-01-16 20:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me I think that he loves you or likes being with you either that or hes obsessed
j/k
he probably thinks that you want him to spend every minute with you
honey just talk to the boy and see what he thinks
2007-01-16 20:33:03 · answer #11 · answered by A. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋