my girlfriend told me just the other day that she didnt want to be with me anymore because she didn't want to hurt anyone any more... i mean what the hell dont want to hurt anyone? who have you been hurtin? i havent done anything to make her upset. we were happy and she was the first girl i really ever loved, **** sucks... since then i went out and blew $120.00 on vodka. and i can't get her off my mind... i want her back so bad... im affraid that she will not understand hom much i love her... and thats why im drinking so much... please can anyone help me try to find a way to get her back?
2007-01-16 12:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by Hey you yeah... you! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really understand the situation...? Maybe you should be asking her this question. I'm sure she'll have a better answer.
2007-01-16 12:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She went away....
You love her and you are trying to get her back...
I can understand you and I can understand the pain you are going through.
But, let me tell you that it will not help getting her back. You will hurt yourself more. You will also hurt yourself by falling into alcoholism. Let's face the truth and make your future a better future. Remember, we get only one life to live.
I know it is very very difficult to forget her. You loved her and wanted to share your lifetime with her. Right now you cannot stop thinking about her. The more you think about her, the more you will get hurt and the more you will be far away from the truth. Someone must help you, not alcoholism.
Have you got a friend? Can you confide all your pain you are going through to him/her? If so, tell him/her about it. Move on. There are plenty of women out there in this world. When time comes, you will find yours. She will share the same dream as you. She will love you. She will trust you. She will support you. She will understand you. You will not be a burden for her. In fact, you will be the purpose of her life. She will be the mother of your children. She will be the bond of your family. This is true love.
Remember, you did not lose your ex-girlfriend. She lost you. Perhaps you do not understand the like of being with people who loves you. When you meet that special someone, you will see the difference and you will thank god for what happened in your past. I wish you good luck in your life.
Sorry, you asked for help to get her back but my answer has been the contrary...
2007-01-16 20:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by the.buster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking will make it worse, stop! Do things to keep yourself busy - hang out with your friends, etc. Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't want to be together there's nothing you can do except try to get over it and move on with your life.
2007-01-16 20:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is scared off by your drinking and foolish money spending habbits.
2007-01-16 20:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by Em C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beg and plead and grovel on the ground and kiss her feet. That should work.
2007-01-16 20:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy cheaper vodka.
2007-01-16 20:26:52 · answer #6 · answered by byron_oneil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop drinking and do something about it. go out of your way to woo her back. Drinking wont do you any good.
2007-01-16 20:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jacy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means she is cheating on you, so keep drinkin
2007-01-16 20:27:36 · answer #8 · answered by bobby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋