I went out and got drunk one night which i promised her i wopuldnt drink and while i was drunk two girls took advantage o me nd made out with me and i was sos drunk i dont even remember but my friend told my girlfriend.... what do i need to do
2007-01-16 12:19:35 · 39 answers · asked by peyton d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
for one you need to beat the hell out of the sucker that told. now if you love her tell her and find out what she was more mad about,the drinking or the girls. if it was the drinking then tell her how sorry you are even though i know it wont work. if shes mad about the girls then tell her you got drunk and that you didnt know. this probably wont work either cuz it will get back around to the drinking. tell her you still love her and you want to be there for her and that you would do anything to kiss her beautiful lips again. get into AA and get some rehab to prove your love to her. thats my advice take it or leave it. im only 14 i wouldnt know about this kind of thing. good luck. let me know what happens. seriously, e-mail me. kidbuu1@sbcglobal.net
2007-01-16 12:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by Arick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally think that being drunk is just an excuse. You should have never put yourself in that situation. If I was your girl, there will be no second chance. Just as easy as you let it happen once, you will do it again. When you are drunk, the truth comes out and you proved that you don't love her like you say you do. Too late to think about it now. I think that you have been cheating all along and your friend just decided to rat you out. He might be a better man for her than you are. Maybe that's why he told. If he had not have on you, you would still be lying to her and keeping it a secret. Just face the fact that there may be nothing you can do to fix your relationship with her. Maybe you should just stay single that way you won't have to explain yourself to anyone.
2007-01-16 12:24:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you need to do is take responsibility for your own actions.Being drunk is not an excuse.You don't deserve to have your girlfriend back.How would you feel if she told you oh I got drunk and 2 guy's took advantage of me..I don't think you like it do you.Saying it is because you were drunk is not only the laimest excuse in the book but it is also a huge sign of a coward.You know you don't deserve her back.Leave her alone and let her find someone that won't cheat and lie to her.She need's a real man and your not it.
2007-01-16 12:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk is the lamest excuse people make. I've been drunk enough to not stand and I still know what was going on around me.
You were so drunk that you don't even remember, except that two girls took "advantage" of you. Dude, man up and stop trying to get sympathy for your intentional screw up.
2007-01-16 12:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Ben B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being drunk is no excuse. I've been drunk plenty of times and I never cheated on any of my boyfriends. You obviously don't care enough about her, so why do you want her back? Just so you can say that she took you back after you cheated on her? Just leave the poor girl alone and let her find a man that truly deserves her!
2007-01-16 12:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by JC 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You've probably blown it with this one. Now is the time to decide what you want out of life. Do you want to be a promiscuous drunk or do you want some one special person? Be a man and make the choice. There's no halfway here.
2007-01-16 12:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is to realize you messed up in a big way.
Second, realize you broke two promises to your girlfriend - that you wouldn't drink and the implied promise to be faithful.
Third, realize your girlfriend is gone and she probably isn't coming back. You need to move on with your life and make sure you don't do it again.
2007-01-16 12:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cared at all about her, you wouldn't have went out and gotten drunk and did what you did. I say she is better off without you! Sorry! Good for her for wanting someone better than a man like you! How could she ever trust you again?!
2007-01-16 12:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by PennyPickles17 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything you CAN do. I mean, you have proved to her that she can't trust you (the drinking thing) and not to mention that she's NOT going to believe that you were taken advantage of. She's gonna think you wanted it and how is she supposed to know any better? I guess it depends on how much she values you and her relationship with you if she will take you back!
2007-01-16 12:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide not to get into another situation where that can happen. Don't spend time around single horny women, especially when drinking, unless she's with you. Figure out what you have to do to be faithful, then do it, and tell her you're going to do it. Be prepared to kiss up to her for a little while, if you really like her, she's worth it. And if she gives you a second chance, don't blow it, second chances should never be wasted.
2007-01-16 12:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mary K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋