need help- My ex and I started dating senior year of high is.school. Things were perfect until 4 months into the relationship her ex (en emo 21 year old, she was 17) decided to stalk her and write love letters and fight with me in the parking lot . we all worked at the same place, her ex was in a different dept. than us. i told her to go to the police which she said she was too embarrased i began meeting her after work to find him waiting for her in the parking lot, and spending most of my time making sure she was ok. Aside from this she would NEVER stop flirting with other guys. no matter how many times i asked her to stop she just NEVER did. her best friend ran through 7 bf's in a month. her mother hated my guts because we missed curfew a few times and my ex would never do anything about it even when she turned 18. we went to a different job and shortly after she started college she stopped calling me as much and one night said that she wanted to break up but couldn't tell me why.
2007-01-16 12:09:50 · 2 answers · asked by U.S MARINE GREG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is too immature to be in a committed relationship and it doesn't sound like she ever really was committed to you and used you as her bodyguard/antagonist to make old boyfriend jealous when it suited her needs and now that she is at college, she has moved on and you need to do the same.
If she really was afraid of her ex-boyfriend she would have talked to her parents and they would have likely gotten a restraining order if they thought she was in danger...she didn't do that. It is likely she played him the same way she played you. If she had filed a restraining order he couldn't contact her even if she wanted him to, thus, it would eliminated him from her life, which obviously, she didn't want.
It could be she justs loves being wanted as it inflates her ego and she likes the drama of guys fighting over her. Why else would she stop calling you, then all of a sudden call to break up but not say why, unless she wants to start the drama all over again?
2007-01-19 01:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine she is likely in basic terms somewhat perplexed. perchance she does love her boyfriend yet jointly can not seem to aid you bypass both. So i imagine you actually did do the right concern. If she somewhat does want you, she might want to provide herself to you totally. the perfect concern so that you may do now might want to be to easily distance your self from her till she's straightened herself out.
2016-10-15 08:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋