me and my bf have a 1/12 year old and all she do is cry fall out when she don't get her way. would it be wrong not to give her what she wants it's not like she knows better or do she. or do i stick to not giving her what she wants will she learn from that.
2007-01-16 12:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by baby 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
When my daughter was that age she did that too, every kid does it. I used to just ignore her when she did it, and NO she did not get it. You have to be very strict with this though, if she can't have it from you she can't have it from him either. My daughter used to be so bad that she would actually through herself on the floor, until one day I said you missed a spot on the floor. She stopped and has never done that again. She is now 7 and knows that when we say no we mean it and aren't doing it to be mean. Hope this helps.
2007-01-16 14:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by kath2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to it. She'll learn the hard way that she isn't always gonna get what she wants. It's a tactic some children try. Some even go as far as to turn blue, but don't worry about it too much. Just don't cave in and she'll get the message!
2007-01-16 12:10:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yess, she will learn from that, because if you dont stop now, she will never learn.
Or, you can give her less each time. That might work too, or make a compromise. She will no what that is, say you get this if I get... or I will give you so many. She will understand.
But you have to put the law down.
2007-01-16 12:15:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to puniosh her by putitng he rin he room. Spanking he rlil butt is ok too. She needs ot betrained now or you really will have trouble.
Punish her by taking away something she wants. take away her sweets that could be her problems.
Put her in her room when she misbeheaves. She'll cry a while but will soon learn that crying will not get her way.
But first have her examed top make sure soemthing isn't wrong with her. but sounds like a spoiled baby.
2007-01-16 12:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she has a tantrum for not getting what she wants then just ignore it. DONT give in. She will eventually figure out that tantrums dont work.
My daughter ALWAYS got what she wanted and is now four and it is really hard for her to accept that she isnt getting what she wants just because she cries. As its always worked in the past.
So put your foot down now. Her behaviour will be harder to correct once she gets older.
Good Luck and dont give in.
2007-01-16 12:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Monkey Magic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to stop her, cuz think it at this your parents to her can give whatever she wants, but others not
2007-01-16 12:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋