well i got dumped by a girl after i gave her flowers she said she needed a break she has alot on her plate well my question to you all is why is the nice guy always shitted on i give up on girl tell me if i am wrong
2007-01-16 11:57:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It goes both ways. the nice girls have the same problems. I know, im a nice girl. it sucks. there is nothing we can do about it until some mature person comes along. Your not wrong, but you shouldnt give up on girls either. Move on if you can and try to find a nice girl. It isnt easy, but it is really worth it.
2007-01-16 12:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying that nice guys finish last is probably true. She dumped you because she is probably nervous about dating and school and the like.
That's okay. You are young. (I assume) There are plenty of other 'fish in the sea'. So get out there and mingle and make new friends and even maybe a new girlfriend.
Take it from an older experienced dumped on nerd! Yeah-me too!
But you know what? I found someone great and have been happily married for many years after going through the same thing you are.
So hang in there.
P.S. Please don't use profanity on the questions /answers. I know you are a little upset, but be careful with your wording.
2007-01-16 20:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by vgordon_90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls who are attracted to the bad boys are all sorry
later on in life but it is too late...
They are jaded, worn-out, no longer feminine, have kids and
nothing to fall back on....
Don't worry, you are the kind of guy that will usually end up with a good woman and a good life...
2007-01-16 20:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls don't know what to do with nice guys like you. For example my brother was dating this girl and he was doing everything for her and she didn't realize how sweet and how he was a good guy to her, until they broke up and then she was dating this other guy who treated her like crap and then that's when she had realized that she had a good guy and now that she had lost him. So don't worry, you will find the girl who will treat you right.
2007-01-16 20:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by anita_06_05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up, there is someone else out there for you and she wasnt it, see it as a way to have the chance to find a better girlfriend who will apreciate that youre a nice guy...
2007-01-16 20:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because the nice guy isnt as fun as the 'bad boy', simple as, u gotta be strong, confident, funny, not needy, and original, oh and take the piss out of her but in a funny way so she knows ur just playin
2007-01-16 20:07:37 · answer #6 · answered by Chillout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being too nice... Girls like nice guys but we also like the challenge.
2007-01-16 20:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you, she just wasnt the girl for you, and dont even trip...you'll find someone better!
2007-01-16 20:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by ~_~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple....You're not her type...
2007-01-16 20:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋