i've been in prison for the last 5 years and i just got out last month... my girlfriend at the time hung in there with me for about the first 2 and a half years, before she found someone else..and now i want her back... but there is also another catch to the story, when i got locked up she was pregnant with my daughter.....so what do i do to get her back... i love her and want her more than anything to come back to me..she says that shes not sure what she wants.. she has also kicked her boyfriend out of the house 2 days after i got out.. but she wont commit to me either...help me please!!!!!
2007-01-16 11:52:00 · 4 answers · asked by taboo1800 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her more time...5 years is too long...all you can do is patiently wait until she's ready to welcome you in her life again...You have a daughter with her and that is one major factor why she must accept you back. Meanwhile, just WAIT.
2007-01-16 12:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its evident that since she has a child with you that she's going to be tied to you for 18 years. Now if you really want to get her back and quick, take care of your daughter. Don't ever bring up being with her anymore, make it strictly as if you're moving on with your life. When she sees how sincere you are then she will want you back. Trust me, not too many women make babies with men and then just never give that man another chance ever again. You have to show her that you're going to start doing good for yourself. Get a job, a car, and your own place. Show her that you don't need her to survive and that you can have any woman in this world you want. I promise you, she will remember how good it was to be with you and want to be with you since you're doing well for yourself. It will work, trust me.
2007-01-16 11:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say you need to talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. She can't read your mind and if she has your daughter you deserve to see her and your daughter deserves to have a father in her life. So tell her whats going through your head and that you honestly love her. good luck
2007-01-16 12:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you want her back but you need to let her decide. Show her you care not only about her but about your daughter as well, you, her and your daughter need to spend some time together. that will show her that you love her and your daughter which will give her reassurrance
2007-01-16 11:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋