2007-01-16 11:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by lil bRii* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have an idea of what you are looking for in a mate.
If any of them want to jump in the sack then forget them.
True love is built upon trust and caring and sharing with one another.
You could say it is unconditional. It gives and receives close to 50/50 all the time, is not one sided.
When its time for the sexual experience side of it AFTER you both marry, you will then discover what very few people know.
That being what it is truly like to become one through the beauty and love of the intimacy that only a truly in love married couple can share and develop.
There's everyday sex in our world, which isn't saying much, then there's the true art of making love to your mate. It only gets BETTER. This is only some of what TRUE LOVE IS.
2007-01-16 12:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by HowFuzzyWuzee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The heart is obviously important, but the rest is lots of time, patience and experience. Don’t rush. Knowing what you want takes time, so learn what you want in a mate, but be reasonable. Don’t ever enter a relationship expecting to change the other person. Don’t ever get tired of waiting and then settle for the next one. Just because you’ve been dating for 6 months or a year, doesn’t mean you can’t break up. It takes a long time to learn what a person is truly like on the inside. The heart alone will blind you if not guided properly. Use your ability of reason to guide your heart.
If you've made it this far, then it might just be TRUE love. The rest is just hard work and luck.
2007-01-16 20:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-First you have to ask yourself what is your true love (example someone who is funny, serious, mature, all your common interests.)
-Second make male friends if you don't have some all ready, but you haven't dated before. Hint: Don't anybody tell body who you like or have interest in. Some how it might get out and he might find out your feelings, placing a mask over his the real him. You what to be just friends because you see the real him. You will have observe over sometime.
-Third, once you have observe a good amount of time, take your relationship to the next level, The Test (examples: see how he treat others and especially family, how he spends money, his hobbies, and see if you can talk for a long time over nothing.)
-Once you have establish a strong friendship you decide if this is for true love or not, then continue as you wish.
THESE ARE JUST THE BASICS
2007-01-16 21:27:21 · answer #3 · answered by jesusfreak_sda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First improve yourself. Exercise, eat well, diet if you need to, improve your wardrobe. Then join some sort of social group where you get to mingle with others. Love will find you.
2007-01-16 19:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to find true love.....you need to open your heart
you need to be yourself, and be open to people
you must also be wary. he/she might seem nice, but it might turn out to be a mole**** or just be using you
be patient, it might take a while, but it will be worth it when you find "the one"
2007-01-16 19:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Erin Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not real sure it kinda just slapped me in the face one night.. even though were not togther now i still love her!!!
2007-01-16 19:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by taboo1800 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont find it when ur looking.
dats da way wit everything...
2007-01-16 19:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by applebottom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't, It usually finds you.....
2007-01-16 19:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't look for it and let it find you
2007-01-16 19:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋