there is this boy on my soccer team and he always annoyed me. mainly me. he'd say stuff like keep the soccer ball away from her. one time at practice he hit me behind the head and i tried to get back at him and he poured water all over me. next time at practice i tried to get him again but i managed to get him a little wet by kicking a soccer ball at his chest. then he poured the rest all over me. i told the story to my friends and showed them the team pic and they said he likes me. but i only see him for 8 weeks and during that time 3 days a week two at practice and saturdays for games. he is on my team for two seasons then the teams get mixed up with different coaches etc. and he is about a year older than me, but he doesnt go to the same school as me anymore so he cant talk to me till spring. this is the first time this kind of problem came up and my friends think he likes me and i have never went out with anyone.i always talk to him we both are forwards and goalies.
2007-01-16 11:40:06 · 17 answers · asked by Liren214 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well the good thing is that he doesnt call me even if he has my number. we have everybody's number from the team cuz it is i think a roster and we can call each other if we have a question.
2007-01-24 11:22:39 · update #1
When boys are mean to you, its mostly because they like you.
OK soo we got that chear now....
1. Dont be 2 nice, be Bad but sweet.
2. Never EVER say yes 'first time when he asks you out... Make sure u say yes on the 2rd or 4th asking.
3. Play a little hard 2 get. which means hang around him like 24/7 flirt, Then if he starts flirtin back then he will like you , anyway Then Just stop FLIRTING... STOP HANGING around him!
Then he will be like 'SH*T' what have i done? then he'll be chasing after u in no time! Also flirt with hes best friends...he will get soo ****** jealous!
4. You can always tell if a boy likes you...If theres lots of flirting going on, Smiling, Tormenting, And when a boy cant take hes eyes off you, then he likes you.
5. Do wot i say.... and u will Be scoring Goals ;)
2007-01-16 11:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by Paris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often times we will get put into situation that tend to be a bit tricky.
If you two were dating, I don't see a problem with the 2 of you going to different schools, just meet up at some place. In my opinion though its always awkward to be in a relationship with someone that works with you or is on the same team on some sport, because if it doesn't work out and you two end up breaking up in the future well, you need time apart and you won't have that.
I'd say if you like him and he asked you out, I'd say try it out and see where it goes, but it seems to early to determine rather you two are going to go out or not.
Best luck to you
2007-01-16 11:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by DarkAaron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he tries "to get you" when no one else is in earshot, smile big and say in a laughing way, "I think you Luuuuv me".
That will pull the truth of the matter out into the open. He'll either smile, frown or ask you out.
Above all, don't care Too much and he'll come a runnin'.
2007-01-16 11:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him, but not in front of his friends. He would be a jerk if you did that. He's being a jerk now anyway. I don't really know why you would even think about dating a guy like this. I mean if he does this to someone he likes, what would he do to someone he loves? You should really think about it. I would just try to ignore him as much as possible. I know that is easier said than done.
2007-01-24 11:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might sound like he likes you but I think he would have already made a move towards you escpecially since he is a little older. If you think he does then go for it because you have nothing to lose by trying to find out.
2007-01-16 11:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by roadrunner316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy is an absolute jerk. Get back at him girl
2007-01-16 11:44:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sam c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does. It is most likely that he does. If I were you I would just ask him out or wait for him to ask. dont wait too long thou.
2007-01-16 11:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup he likes u. some guys like to hit and beat girls to say they like them. its normal so ask for your boy problem say yes and go oi=ut with him BUT THATS ONLY IF U LIKE HIM
2007-01-16 11:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys only do that to girls when they like them if they're 8. If it's 12 or over, he prob duzn't. he prob hates u. no offence
2007-01-16 11:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
life is no fun without risks soo go for it
take care
2007-01-16 11:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋