honest opinion please?

Question

i know this is long, but please answer both questions so i went on a cruise and i met this whole group of guys. me and my friend hung out with them every single night of that cruise. the first 3 nights i had noticed this one guy, but nothing was happening between us, we just hung out really as a big group and talked a lot. the 4th night strolled around and me and this kid were hanging out and we went to my room and talked the whole entire night. he had mentioned to me ahead of time that he didn't want me to think he was gay because he wasn't going to do anything with me because i had already hooked up with his brother. so i was fine with that, and the whole entire night we talked about so much. i started to have more than a physical attraction to him, and before we even hooked up that night he had already kissed me on the cheek and when he had to go to the casino he promised he'd be back in 20 minutes to hang out with me, and he came back in 10. then we talked some more and by the end of the night we had hooked up. he slept over my room, and he had asked me before we hooked up if we were going to be hanging out the next day. the next day my friend got him from the casino, because he was always there right after dinner, and she asked him if he wanted to hang out..so he said yes and he came to my room right away to hang out. we had talked for a little while, and then he asked if i wanted to go to his room, and we went and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally in the moment. it was amazing, although he didn't talk much, it was as if he was focusing really hard and concentrating. he did everything to me, and there was a lot of foreplay. after we had sex, we went to the casino for a little while, and i told him i was going to go back to my room to lay down. i wasn't expecting him to come back that night, but he came knocking on my door to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me to hang out, but he thought i was with another guy because i was hanging out in a room with another guy, but nothing happened between me and that guy. so now he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. eventually we met back up again, and he explained to me how he thought i was with another guy. i cleared it up for him and told him that i was not with another guy at all, and i wouldn't be. that night, him, me and my friend hung out the whole entire night talking, until this other guy came to hang out with my friend. and then me and this kid had sex again in the moment, which was even more amazing the second time. he was so caring, and seemed to be more comfortable. he was constantly asking if i was alright, and told me to tell him when to stop. he slept over again that night and we layed together. earlier that night he had pulled my friend aside to ask what the deal with me was. and he said that i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and if i lived where he did after the cruise we'd be together. it just so happens that i am going to college where he lives. the last night we hung out once again and talked a lot, and he kissed me goodbye on the lips. after the cruise, he commented me right away on myspace, and we talked a few times, but it's really hard to talk everyday, and it's not easy to get involved in a long distance relationship, because those hardly ever work, plus we never really talked about it. at one point he had been really busy, but i thought he was avoiding me..so i left him a message saying, i'd still like to be friends or at least talk for that matter, but if you don't write back then i'll know you don't want any part of me. sure enough, he wrote back, and told me that of course we're still friends, and let me know that he didn't have a girlfriend or anything. i surprised him one time and he was really happy to see me, he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise, and kissed me on the lips goodbye. he told me to call him next time that way we could actually meet up and hang out. he wanted to make sure i was definitely coming to college there also. it was a really nice visit, and after the visit, he had commented me asking me how the rest of my trip was , and telling me to call him next time i was in his state. we haven't talked in awhile, and for right now i'm moving on, and so is he..he has a girlfriend which he just got recently, and i'm sure i'll find someone new, but hopefully in the future this might work out. p.s. i never did anything to him such as giving him head or a hand job, and he wasn't with any other girls on the cruise.

does this sound like he really liked me a lot, and maybe we have a chance in the future?

Answer 1

Yes, it sounds like there really are some true feelings there, but there is nothing you can do about it right now. I would suggest to keep writing each other as friends and take it one day at a time until you get to college. Then if it was meant to be, you two will be together, but don't put your life on hold for something that may never happen. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Yeah it does sound like he likes you a lot. When my husband and I had sex the first time ( 9 months after dating) he would keep asking me if I was okay and to tell him when I wanted to stop. I would definitely say it could work in the future if the feelings are still there and the time is right ( I don't you to think I am being negative, but those are realistic things to think about). Just so you know there isn't anything wrong with long distance relationships. I know that cause after 3 months of dating my husband I left and 9 months later we got married. We would constantly go to each other's state to visit (him Arizona and me in Texas). Long distance relationships can work if the two people want them to.

P.S. I hope everything works out between you and this guy.

Answer 3

Easiest thing to do is just wait for college time to roll around and talk to him face to face. It's harder to talk to him over the phone and deal with it then as it can send mixed signals easily. Believe me I know, I have been in a long distance relationship going on a year and a half now. I recommend just being patient and you will see when you talk to one another right away if you still have the love and desire for one another. Hope everything works out alright!

Answer 4

When you begin college there you should definately call him and go for coffee or something non-threatening (and definately non sexual). Since you live far away now, I certainly am glad that you are both dating. You'll just have to wait till you get there to see where your relationship goes. I am confused about one thing...you had sex but you felt you needed to add the p.s. what is this about???

Answer 5

i read the whole thing. i dont feel like u to will be together in the future it sounds like a fling thing. kind of like a booty call when your in town u get together when ur not u really dont speak. but i do wonder how u started out with his brother at the beginning and ended up with him. that doesnt sound right to me at all.

Answer 6

in my opinion, Madoc is purely fairly unattractive. It sounds exciting (inspite of the fact it is to close to to loopy duck IMO), yet I purely won't be able to detect a spelling it is in any respect appropriate, Maddox could be amazing besides the undeniable fact that it fairly is reported (MAD-ex).

Answer 7

well...if you two stay in contact with each other and by the time you get to college and you are both single, then sure you have a shot. but you are right about the long distance thing...so just stay his friend and keep in contact with him.

Answer 8

Wow, long question. I agree with the frist guy that answered. Good luck.

Answer 9

yeah it is to long - didn't read it , plus i doubt i could give you a honest answer anyway -- sorry

Answer 10

Is this a copy paste?