There is this guy at school that I really like, I just posted about this but I need way more answers. I really like him and I want to try to get to know him. Should I try to get to know him by my firneds and his friends? Should I have one of my friends ask him if he likes me? Should I have one of his friends ask him if he likes me? What should I do? I am really scared because I really never had a boyfriend and almost everyone else has. Please help me. This is just really hard for me. I never get advice from my parents. Just please help me people. Please and thank you.
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2007-01-16 11:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by babii_jeremy_lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I emailed you..... If you like him just get to know him first, he could be the exact oppisite of what you have in mind for him
2007-01-16 11:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best approach is be direct and be yourself. Do not have your friends get to know him for you. Do it yourself. Guys would rather have a girl be direct and tell it like it is and not have their friends do it for them. If you are a little hesitant about approaching him in person, write a letter and tell him that you like him. Just be honest and he will appreciate it more. Even if he does not like you the way you like him, at least you will have the satisfaction of knowing you tried. You will never know unless you do try, so make the first move, write a letter if you must, but be yourself.
2007-01-16 11:45:00 · answer #2 · answered by rustyohiostate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to become friends with him so you can get to him instead of asking around. If you ask his friends then his friends are going to tell the guy you like that you've been asking about him. If you want him to know that you like him that would be the best way. Try not to go too crazy over guys, the best way is to play hard to get.
2007-01-16 11:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by karenlm215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem exactly?
Get to know him. Talk to him. Flirt with him. Don't be scared.
My guess is that you are middle school aged. It's okay to be scared. It's a part of growing up...
You'll like another boy in two weeks. Just go for it!
2007-01-16 11:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by theverygrouchyladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think what you shud do is forget about tha friend thing cuz thats what most guys hate when a girl sends her friend or his friend try going up to him yourself and just start off with a conversation never run out of questions or answers ask things like what do you like to do after skool or whats your fav color things of that nature start off with a hey wuz up how ya din type of thing and let it flow if he seems totally un interrested then jus walk off this is how you can tell if you ask how you doin and he doesnt ask you how you doin he is not interrested so move on to the next victim
2007-01-16 11:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by MisSunDerSt0od 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tyry to be his friend.... It is not really good now to make him know you like him in that way for he will just take advantage of it.... Just try to be his friend and see if it can work and if it lasts long enough and you feel you should let him know u want something more let him know.
2007-01-16 11:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by ◄☯♫ vanitee of vanitees ♫☯► 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Calm down....life is not short. You just walk up and say "Hey i am interested in you(i think you are someone i would like to go out with) or something like that. Don't hurt your brain thinking about what to do...just ask him direct, he may even like the confidence you show.
2007-01-16 11:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by ifOnly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is such a complicated issue. suck it up and go talk to him. in the end you will feel better and you will never have that doubt in the back of your head. Good Luck!
2007-01-16 11:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should o to him and tell him what's up! He might want to get to know you too and you just don't know it!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-16 11:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Fizzle12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself ,and get to know him on your own.if he's the right one for you it will work,also pray about it.don't depend on other people to do things like this for you, or your life will end up in a rut...........
2007-01-16 11:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by ELLEN P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋