He sends an email saying he likes you a whole lot but cannot date you. You tell him that you two can still share a good friendship, but then he starts to compliment you a lot and share his deepest secrets with you. What is he up to???
2007-01-16 11:31:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he wants to be "friends with benefits"
2007-01-16 11:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by StaR'in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either married or has another girlfriend. I think he's playing with you. Why don't you ask him what he's up to if he said he can't date you? I've heard that no man sees a girl as just a friend, they always want sex, they think about sex I don't know how many times a minute. And if you're hoping that by being his friend maybe he'll date you with time, don't waste your time, when a guy likes a girl and wants to be with her, he is. I wouldn't keep someone a friend when one of you is interested in the other. That's just asking for trouble and hurt feelings. Hopefully a guy will give you some input.
2007-01-16 19:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee sounds like a friendship to me..... sharing feelings thoughts secrets etc is afterall what friends do.
2007-01-16 19:35:08 · answer #3 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he isn't ready for a relationship, or isn't confident enough to ask you out on a date. he probably genuinely likes you, but wants to get to know you better first before he can make up his mind. do you like him back? do you know him in person? if you do like him back and actually know him, you should probably tell him so he might feel more confident to ask you out on a date.
2007-01-16 19:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's up to playin'. Leave him cold, girl, who needs the mindf***? You deserve better. There are plenty of nice men around who are happy to show real appreciation to a woman.
2007-01-16 19:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by morgbert 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
up to no good, i suspect. have a good talk to him in person, because email or messenger can get too confusing. but have the talk in a public place.... :)
2007-01-16 19:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes in a relationship-maybe married, or living with someone
2007-01-16 19:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this might be because of his parents not wanting him to date just yet
2007-01-16 19:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably in another relationship
or he's only after ONE thing
2007-01-16 19:37:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mandy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be confused...or just want to get you to have sex with him. ASK him what is the deal?
2007-01-16 19:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by ifOnly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋