p***** at you but you aren't sure why?
2007-01-16 10:55:05 · 23 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say something like "Is there a problem between us that I am not aware of?". You can change that to what ever works in your neck of the woods and it will work the same way. Just talk it out.
2007-01-16 11:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by El P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them... If you let it stew it will only get worse. Walk right up and ask them what's wrong. When they start to go off on you (and they probably will) just stand there and take it. When they're done, then tell your side and make a go of it. Don't interupt them, they will think that you don't care what they say and that you don't listen. They will be more likely to hear your side if you give them the courtesy first.
Listening is an art, but it's also a skill, learn how to listen and then put it to work.
Good luck
2007-01-16 18:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by kb6jra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confrontation is always best. Ask the person if you offended them in anyway. If so, apologize and try to work things out. But remember, some people will not like you regardless of what you say or what you do. You need to accept that and realize that there are also people who will like you regardless of what you say or do. One of my teachers said this, "20% of all people you meet will like you, 20% will dislike you no matter what, and you have to work for the other 60%.
2007-01-16 19:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by Andee21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them. Ideally, try to arrange a face to face meeting, but call, email, or write them a note if you have to. If they won't tell you, than there isn't a whole lot you can do -- except to realize this person is somebody you are better off not associating with.
2007-01-16 18:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a few days to cool off then IM or Email them, telling them that you don't like that there is tension between you and you'd like to work it out if only they would let you know what it is you can do to mend the fence.
2007-01-16 18:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask why. If they aren't direct, let it go and don't become dependent on someone who will not openly communicate with you.
2007-01-16 18:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ignore that persoan, but he will think you really like him and he will try to pick on u again. The best way is to speak clear. Leave me alone !
2007-01-16 19:03:21 · answer #7 · answered by WHO's WHO WHO WHO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i give them a day or two to cool off and then i confront them about t. i ask them what I did or said, and i let them tell me without interrupting. when they are done I usually talk to them about it. in the end it is usually a misuderstanding
2007-01-16 18:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them
2007-01-16 18:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jeanette E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it. Eventually they'll get over it. Apparently it wasn't that big of a deal if you don't know why they're mad.
2007-01-16 18:58:59 · answer #10 · answered by mandapandaz80 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋