Advice on asking a woman out?
There is this woman that I really like who works at the bank that I go to. I truly think that she is really pretty with a beautiful smile. I noticed that she isnt married or enagaged bc there was no ring on her finger at all. I know banktellers are supposed to be nice to all customers. She sometimes works as a teller or at the drive thru window. How can i find out if she is single? and what is the best way of getting her to notice me? Should i write her a note? bc the other teller could be listening to my convo with her if no one is there. What is the best thing thing i should do or how should i ask her out? thanks again.
2007-01-16 10:41:07 · 7 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
oh that would be so cute, a little note! NOT LAME!! (however the rose thing is a little overwhelming...i wouldn't suggest that until after a few dates...THEN it would be sweet, but not right off the bat...that screams obsessive!!)
but if you wanted to find out if she's single ask one of the other tellers when shes not there. if you kno her name just ask the other teller if "name" is seeing anyone? if they say no then just say thanks i was only wondering. then the next time you go to the bank and shes working pass her a note and make it simple and sweet, nothing too detailed that says ur a stocker but nothing to corny that says u want a one night stand! lol just something like ["would ya wanna grab dinner or drinks sometime? - "your name"] that should b simple enough that she would get you want to know her~
Aw if i was her it'd b flattering and cute!!! go for it and goodluck!!
2007-01-16 11:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by roxybeach793 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, but PLEASE don't be too pushy. I am an agent at a registries office and right now I am dealing with this situation in reverse. I politely said no to the guy and explained why, but he keeps calling and is being somewhat pushy (has not reached the point of stalking or anything.) I think he mistakenly thought I was flirting with him because I was smiling and making polite conversation, which is part of my job. Anyway, he keeps calling after I've already said no, I have to say I am not appreciating it.
2007-01-16 10:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by freebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't write her a note, that's kinda lame. Just ask her. Women like men with confidence...and jerk too!! No just kidding.
Tell her what you just wrote.....sheesh it's not that hard and ask her if she's single, then go from there.
The worst thing she could say is no, but I'm sure she will be nice about it, and the best thing she can say would be yes
50/50 shot..LOL
JUST DO IT!!
conversation is not hard talk about anything.
2007-01-16 10:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by Hollywood*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, mabey you could get someone else, like a friend, to talk to her when she is working in the drive through window. mabey he could bring up that he is getting money for his wife (i made that up) and then she would probably say, that she is single or not single. then a good romantic way to ask her out, one that girls LOVE!, is to right a note.
good luck!
2007-01-16 10:48:25 · answer #4 · answered by PeytonM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. pass her a little note. saying something to make her smile. then maybe leave a rose for her. and when you have the nerve give her your phone number or just ask her out on a date.
2007-01-16 10:48:22 · answer #5 · answered by as 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she would like to accompany you for a drink/walk/lunch/sky-diving lesson....
If the answer is "No" or she is hesitant, move on to the next.
2007-01-16 10:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her ; " Hey if I told you have a beutiful body would you hold it against me ; ?
2007-01-16 10:51:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋