Hey, I am a guy and I want to know how you can tell if your girl is cheating on you
2007-01-16 10:36:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the person wants to spend a lot less time with you, it is possible--but not a "for sure"
If the relationship is sexual, and the person wants less and less sex--it is also possible--still not "for sure"
If the person is acting very distant, and seems to want your date to be over as soon as possible--it's possible.
Don't forget, though, that sometimes people have other things on their mind that have nothing to do with love or relationships (family, friends, school or work, illness, etc. are problems that can take a lot out of a person).
These days, it doesn't seem so likely that a boyfriend/girlfriend would cheat (as much as in previous generations). It is too easy to just break up or say that the two of us should both see other people. There seems to be a lot less reason to lie, these days.
2007-01-16 10:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your gf changes. if she seems to act different now. when u call her and her phone is off or she doesn't call u back. if she makes alot of excuses and if she's already told u maybe u should break up. if she hasn't done not one of these things than u are being too insecure. if one of these things has occured than u need to talk with her and ask her if she thinks u should be friends. if she says yes, than don't push it, get the hint and move on.
2007-01-16 18:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My bf's mate was being cheated on and his gf started taking better care of herself when it started i.e she lost weight, always looked her best and started wearing new clothes. If she starts to act different or suspicious and wont let you near her phone or goes out 'with the girls' and ur not allowed to know what went on then i would be suspicious.
2007-01-16 18:40:47 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they use the phone when your around but go in the other room, leaves or stays at a friends house even though shes not, talks to other guys online and clicks off screen when u enter the room
2007-01-16 18:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by lexiemarie2424 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for any person this is for the following:
They keep yoou on hold for a long tiime when you are on the phone with them and they claim it was there ,other
When they give an exuse its is long wided and has a very detailed info.
They doont really let you into there house when you ask to come in AFTER a date.
These are the basics if you want more email me
2007-01-16 18:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by sweet pea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just look for signs. They are bound to reveal themselves, just follow your first instinct in some cases its usually the best one.
2007-01-16 18:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by ladybball31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she stops doing the little things she used to do... if she is getting nervous and aggrivated really easy.. and sometime if she breaks down alot or accuses you of cheating.
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2007-01-16 18:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think she is - 90% chance she is!, and a 100% chance you know him well!
2007-01-16 18:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Boston Bluefish 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She never would cheat unless you deserve it by being mean or rude, so as long as you are nice, you won't have to worry
2007-01-16 18:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by Amelia 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If her pupils dilate when she answers your questions about cheating, she's lying.
2007-01-16 18:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋