How do you break up with a guy GENTLY?

Question

Keyword: GENTLY

I have a boy that I don't want to hurt his feeling, but, I want to break up. Any suggestions on how to do it NICELY AND GENTLY?

Answer 1

Ignore him, and don't return his calls, and make excuses to get away if you meet him.
He will get the message eventually, although it may take a month or two...

Answer 2

There isn't a gentle way. The best you can do is show him (or at least make him believe) that it hurts to do so, but you have to. Don't be cruel, or just drop it on him, and don't parade another guy around in front of him, but be prepared for some guys to stay kinda clingy......sometimes you mighthave to put the message across a little stronger. Make sure he at least feels that you cared about him a little, you know? That's really all you can do. Have a talk and tell him how you're feeling. Be prepared in case it isn't all smooth.

Answer 3

depends on how sensitive the guy is and how much he actually likes you, but say like ur sorry but its not workin out and u think it would be better for both of you if u see other people but tht u still wnt to be friends, and try and also tell the tuth about y ur doin it

Answer 4

depends how long you knew each other and how much there is attached links.
It is hard on both of you, but be strong and go for it, don't lose your happiness for him, he is not your husband, that will be different because there is law, court, money to spend and emotions to be griefed and culture that doesn't give mercy.
so go for it, ask your parents for help.

Answer 5

Tell him why you wanna brake up. If you don't prefer the truth, tell him that it's not him it's you and you just don't want to go out anymore cause you don't want to hurt him.