i was gonna head out to go shop at hot topic and needed 25 bucks to get money for pants so i come downstairs and say hey i need a 20 spot, my moms liek "what for?". i go i need a spare o pants cuz my current one has a whole in it. they my sister made a really nasty comment, and i called her a dirty slut right in front of my mom. but listen, she is one she hangs out with way too many ppl she prolly gets it evry other night. lol. she can be so nasty and i had a headache. so my moms like. WHAT DID U Say. and im like u heard me, and then she says i cant do nothin for the rest of the week. im like WTF mom i made plans with my friends 3 weeks ago. i mean does she even care what my sister said to me?! honestly i know what i did was wrong but dont u think my mom should have heard what my sister said to me instead of flipping out on me? i just feeel like the whole world is against me sometimes. any advice?
2007-01-16 10:30:06 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hate is a strong word. Work together and build a good relationship. A sibling can be a lifelong friend.
2007-01-16 10:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should love one another, even if you don't always see eye to eye. You should also love and respect your parents so that your days may be longer. You should not have gotten smart with your mother, regardless of what your sister said. Truth to me sounds like you didn't get what you wanted so you were the one acting spoiled. Yes, your sister should not have made a nasty comment, but you too added to it but calling her something equally as nasty and then proceeded to get nasty with your mom. She did the right thing by telling you couldn't go. Maybe next time you'll watch what you say.
2007-01-16 18:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would help to know what she said. but just because she hangs out with a lot of people doesn't make her a bad person and you don't know if she's sleeping with anyone or not. but talk to your mom and say you feel like she didn't pay attention to the fact your sister said something to you all though you calling her a bad name i'm sure didn't help the matter so maybe it's cause of the curse word your mom was more upset with you than your sister. try asking your mom if you apologize if you can keep the plans you made 3 weeks ago. talking to your mom is a much more mature aproach and she will respect you more for talking to her.
2007-01-16 18:37:19 · answer #3 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, You've got some SERIOUS growin to do. Before you go impressing the Ladies. First, get a job, and stop asking Mom for money. Next. Learn some respect. You'll need it to get a job, in the first place. That mouth, is gonna keep you very poor.
2007-01-16 18:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sibling rivalry, Ahhh
life would not be healthy w/o it
I know you love your sister
you just hate the turn out of things
-you should right them both a letter
start out by apologizing for your behavior to get their attention
-then let them know how you feel (very politely)
kill them wuth kindness & maturity
-they will respect you more next time
2007-01-16 18:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i remember being your age, my sis is three years younger than me and a lot prettier, and i used to give her so much sh*t.
she attempted suicide twice when i was 17, and i flipped out i knew that she hated it when i talked sh't that is why i did it but i did'nt realize how badly it hurt her, esp. combined with all the sh't that gets talked in high school...
this was when we still lived together under my parents obviously
i am 21 now and damn glad that i made it up to my one and only sister, and now she will have my back for the rest of my life.
(and i never have to live with her again hah!!)
so be nice to your sis
or she will hate you later on in life. you do not want this.
good luck, spoonman
2007-01-16 18:37:47 · answer #6 · answered by spoonman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a little spoiled punk *****.
I hate to seriously agree with Carlos Mencia, but your mom really needs to beat your *** regularly, then we wouldn't have this kind of problem.
One day, man, you will grow up and have kids, and they will all be spoiled punk bitches because you never knew the meaning of discipline and not embarrassing your mother in public.
2007-01-16 18:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a deal with your mom that if you can go out with your friends, and then you can be grounded for 2 weeks, or something like that.
2007-01-16 18:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by LiverLaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just hang in there I know sisters can be tough to live with but one day shes gonna have your back.Just call her **** when you mom is not around and when she says something bitchy in front of your mom again just deal with it until your mom is gone.Trust me it works.
2007-01-16 18:36:55 · answer #9 · answered by imaflybitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ''dirty ****''was the wrong term sometimes you have to turn the other cheek remember shes younger than you .... is she?
Well anyway try to cross your fingers and apologize to both of them and see it you squeeze your way out. Love Ya
p.s hot topic rocks!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 18:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Spidy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋