I am bored...all my friends either live a long way or are attached. I am always stuck in the house and I am scared I will never meet anyone. I moved back with my parents after splitting up with a partner of 7 years and before I met him I had just moved here so I dont know many people apart from people I work with. Does anyone have any idea's?
2007-01-16 10:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what? You don't have a job or go to school?
Who has time to be bored? really!
2007-01-16 10:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow.
i know how ur feeling. i moved away and i live on my own, new city, my man is inanother state. however we are having problems.
Meet some people. even if u go to a cafe, go to the same one. you will slowely start making friends, or just a smile or a hi.
When i first came to the city, i sat alone and ate lunch, i go to the same cafe and the waiters always talk to me and have lunch with me.
You wil meet someone, once u find friends and start going out yo u will meet someone. and who says u need someone right now,.take ur time, enjoy being single.
go out and go shopping. do little things that make u feel better. make this time be about u. and thats wat i am doing. get makeovers, geting hair done, nails etc. its the best . i feel great...
You shud start dancing classes, or even gym .
I came to this city 1 month ago ,and ive made a friend in a fashion store where i bought clothes, and she and her friends invited me out to the city. and having lunch at the cafe, i have managed to make few other friends,
you will feel like this for a whilel, trust me it gets beter, new city, new friendship and new beggining! think of it that way. so get out that house right now!! and even go for awalk in the nieghbourhood.
2007-01-16 18:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Rasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-16 18:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by iloeta1164 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell girl live a little book yourself on a mini cruise or short break somewhere check the web usually find sights offering these deals with other like minded people what you got to loose you wont find anyone by staying home get out ther XXX-XXX
2007-01-16 18:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find activieties outside of the house - a bowling league perhaps, or see if someone from work wants to hang out after work Many bars have karaoke nights so that is a good way to meet people and build up your confidence if you haven't tried that!
2007-01-16 18:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? You're completely free! You can do anything you like. It's like a fresh start. Not too many people get those. Just try to have fun. Enjoy your freedom, everything else will come in time.
2007-01-16 18:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your into reading try finding books you intreseted in or find thing on the tv that youlike and if all else fails try to join a few different chat rooms there are a few out there that are good one to check out would be mygreengroup.com that has some 200 + rooms to look into.
2007-01-16 18:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by fredfriese@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
read a book..... don't be in a hurry to find someone for the sake of lonliness.... thats the worse basis of a relationship. Just let things happen in due time. Be available to the idea of new friendships when they become available to you.
2007-01-16 18:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I suggest you get off your butt,get out and start socializing with people. Hang out with the people from work a little and im sure they have friends and family you'll get introduced to.
2007-01-16 18:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by irishdragon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um u could read or jump on the bed o watch a movie or sharpen a pencil or listen to an ipod or cd or get on the computer
2007-01-16 18:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny answer but try this ... either take your dog or offer to take your neighbors dog for a walk in a major park or dog park. you can meet others just like you and its easier than a bar.
2007-01-16 18:27:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋