i was seeing this giy before christmas we were not together but we did have sex we kinda stopped seeing each other but txt all de tiime!! he came down to e twice in de past week and we have been chattng nothing happened between us but im mad about him den last night he txt me asking did i wanna go for a RIDE in his car and i said no now he's all annoyed and wont txt back whats going on??
2007-01-16 10:20:59 · 28 answers · asked by flojo06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's using you for sex
2007-01-16 10:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hes just playing you sorry to say. Try to move on an get someone who will actually respect you instead of being a shallow guy. There are guys out there that will treat you right! I dont think having sex with him when you werent together helped - you were giving him exactly what he wanted and he obivously isnt getting any from anywehre else at the moment hence why he wants to meet up again.
2007-01-18 00:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply Using Youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.
Its Better to avoid him
2007-01-16 18:26:06 · answer #3 · answered by nataraj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd forget about it to be honest. Don't text him again and move on. If he texts you. Then YOU decide if he can have another chance with you or if he has gone past the point of no return.
2007-01-16 18:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exact same thing happened to me....he was using me and hes using you. At least you can see it. This guy had me under such mind control that he had me think the whole thing was my fault. It still hurts now, and all this happened early december.
2007-01-16 18:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by prettyflower17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me he is using you, contacting you when it is convienant for him. Texting is the string attatched to a yo-yo, he pulls you in and throws you out. You deserve better. Let him be annoyed, he will get over it.
2007-01-16 18:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you're going to find out if he likes you is to spend time with him without sex. If he still texts you and talks to you and wants to spend time with you then he likes you. If he gets all annoyed and won't answer your texts then you know he only wanted to use you.
2007-01-16 18:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't go near him anymore, the more you preserve yourslef( your body is what he wants), do not get emotionly down, he is punishing you because you are not giving him your body , his desire.
so stop it right there, try to focus in your mom and dad, talk to them about him, even if it is chocking for them, but they will protect you. Trust your family
2007-01-16 18:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Summer O 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Using you for sure. Thats what happens when you have a one-night stand. Sorry.
2007-01-16 18:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wants you when he feels like it - but it needs to work both ways - he is being selfish really - maybe you sent out the wrong signals to start with and should have played a bit harder to get! sounds like he wants his wicked way with no strings attached
2007-01-16 18:26:34 · answer #10 · answered by caroline f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a user.
2007-01-17 08:18:55 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋