my boyfriend lives in new york and every time i call him, after couple minutes he would say that he has to go and everysingle time he would say that almost after 10 mintes. one time he accidentally said "ok she's here so i gtg now." so i asked him who'se there? and he replied "oh no one i i i gotta go" and now i m starting to wonder if he's cheating on me and one more time he said he has to go now and i guess he was a bit late on dropping the call so i heard him say "wow you smell good!" so does this mean he's cheating on me or something?
2007-01-16 10:18:23 · 14 answers · asked by Ezzi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless he hired a maid to clean for him, I sense you have a problem with your boyfriend.
2007-01-16 10:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He lives in New York? You live where? Being realistic, long distance relationships rarely work. He's alone and will find someone to help him occupy his time. I am not saying all men are that way, but men are fairly predictable. They are creatures of habit. Follow your gut instinct, but ask him and be prepared for what he might have to say. It's doubtful that he will admit to cheating, but you might ask him if he has met someone that has peaked his interest while living in New York. Tell him you are getting bad vibes and don't want to seem paranoid, but you feel in your heart you need to ask.
2007-01-16 18:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Saz_E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH hun....what does your gut instinct tell you? Since I have to go by what you have said here, well it kind of sounds like that is a strong possibility. But I have heard a saying that if you think about it, is kind of true: ' Believe only half of what you see, and none of what you hear ' Always leave room for a misunderstanding, but I would certainly ask for a heart to heart with him!
2007-01-16 18:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by GentleSoul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on...who else would he say "wow u smell good" if not another woman. Get the hint, don't let the door hit his *** on the way out...give up on him, don't let him make a fool out of you. You have more respect for yourself then that...
2007-01-16 18:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by Hobit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is theres at least 3 cases of evidence and besides he trie to cover t up-im sorry but hes cheating and using u for finacual support-just like a paracite if i were u i would kick his cheating *** out of the house ASAP dont let him do take avantage of u
2007-01-16 18:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is. You obviously are not very good in the sack. I bet if you ask your mom if she thinks he is cheating, she cant look you in the eyes. You know what that means dont you?
2007-01-16 18:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i cant even believ he is doing this to u!! u need to call him up and tell him gurl pls believ me tell him this! ( i cant believ u are cheating on me! ) u are always geting off the phonw talking about shes here! what the hell whos she? and also tell him that u heard him say se smellt good one time trust me hes cheating on u and the worse part about it is hes leting u see it!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-16 18:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing i do see is that he is open to meeting girls, it sounds that u are the only one who thinks there is a relationship. if he loved or missed u, he would want to talk with u on the phone, there wouldn't be any mysteries like this. sadly, i don't think he is only commited to you.
2007-01-16 18:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by gracy808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You know the answer in your heart. Find someone interested in YOU.
2007-01-16 18:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling, tell him it's over and done with
there are plenty of fish in the sea
he obviously is not worth your time
he's cheating...wow
tell him its over
2007-01-16 18:27:29 · answer #10 · answered by lulula123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋