You're just about to get serious with a girl who has not been highly recommended and then an ex or a one time true love shows up, but she's married, throws you for a loop and then is gone that fast.
What does this all mean? I am still in love with the ex but have not lost my faithfulness with the girl I may marry.
2007-01-16 10:17:51 · 7 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
it does not soudn like you shoudl be with either one...
the ex is obviously not marriage material
you describe your current girlfriend as "not highly recommended" what does that mean? you are not impressed with her..if not, find someone else
2007-01-16 10:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say it was Divine. The thing is, you haven't even mentioned your relationship with God. And have we heared whether you have talked to your Pastor or mentor. The whole point to things like this happening in our lives is so we will take stock of what we want, need, and can be for someone else. If I figure out before I make a mistake that in fact this would be a mistake, then I don't put someone else through heaps and heaps of pain. I don't cause a life crisis in two families. We do as little harm as possible as we go through this life of joy. How can anyone give great joy by marrying another that they consider to be second to "the love of my life". You sir do the lady a great injustice. And that, by the way, doesn't say anything about your family or hers. They too deserve to have someone to love their child with their all and all. Please understand this, everyone needs to be loved and cared for honestly.
BTW have you spoken to your intended about this?
I hope you do.
2007-01-16 19:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by freedbeliever2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong forum, my friend.
Revelation 21:8
"But for the cowardly and unbelieving and abominable and murderers and immoral persons and sorcerers and idolaters and all liars, their part will be in the lake that burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death."
2007-01-16 18:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing devine in that.
Sounds like you are getting hurt for doing exactly the things that God said not to do.
The ten commandments are not some test. They are Gods wish for us because he loves us. Like telling your kid not to play in the street.
2007-01-16 18:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is married, it means you need to get over it, and on with your life.
2007-01-16 18:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It`s more divine testing, it happened to me a couple of time`s i soon learnt not to be tempted
2007-01-16 18:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just the way life goes. You almost can't avoid it.
2007-01-16 18:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋