we met and spent two days together. i am sure we are both in love. he told me he is not in love with his girlfriend and he is going to break up with her, i told him not to call until he does. we met 10 days before Christmas and he has not called in a month. it is driving me a little crazy i expected to hear from him by now. if i know i really like him and want a chance for a relationship with him is it foolish to wait for him to call me? I really think that he will. I don't want to date anyone else. he was writing blogs up until the 1st of Jan. that i could tell were about me. now he doesn't write them very often, maybe once a week, and they are not about our time together or about me as they were before. Another problem is he live about 400 miles away. He has been with his girlfriend for one year. Is it sensible to wait? I believe he is worth waiting for but does it normally take this long?
2007-01-16 10:09:42 · 9 answers · asked by jewels33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, forget him and find a local guy who's single. 400 miles away AND not single? He may as well live in China with several concubines. Good night!
2007-01-16 10:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
400 miles away? Seriously you gotta think how its gonna work out. You gonna move is he gonna visit you?
Some guys will have 2 things going on at once. Not all. But there is a funny radio show that found this out by accident. The girl got totally pissed. Just call him and ask him whats up. I hate mind games too.
2007-01-16 10:15:44 · answer #2 · answered by Frak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks that 400 miles is too far away!! He probably hasnt broke up with her yet and still is wating for the right time.
i don't think it would be a good idea to jump straight into a relationship with him if hes just broke up with the ex.
2007-01-16 10:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by timmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mean to burst your bubble but, move on. he'd have called you by now if it meant anything.400 miles is a long way. find someone that will give you the respect and loyalty you deserve.
2007-01-16 10:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest....I think he used you! But I can not be sure, of course. In his eyes, I think, the two days that you spent together [despite how awesome they were] would not compare to the year of security he has with his GF...I wouldn't wait!!
2007-01-16 10:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hun don't wait... as much as it might hurt or suck to not be with him u don't wanna get involved with someone who is just getting out of a relationship.. it is never a healthy way to start a new one... good luck no matter what happens! i hope u can find someone :)
2007-01-16 10:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Dee Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i hate to crush your dreams but he isnt going to break up with her, a) you can't fall in love after two days of talking b) he just wants two women, i mean how is she going to find out, he is just telling you what you want to hear
2007-01-16 10:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait - if it is meant to be then it will happen - move on and see what happens
2007-01-16 10:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not wait for him.
2007-01-16 10:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋